DOM'S NEWSLETTER
www.fms-help.com
Feb. 3, 2007
 
Hello Fibro Team! - The topics in this newsletter are in PURPLE.  My comments are in TEAL. 
See Topic #20 for responses to the email from my friend about what causes FMS/CFIDS. - Dominie

 
1. READERS WRITE
"I absolutely love your website www.fms-help.com and look forward to your updates."

"Sometimes, with FMS, all you can do is just get by. Thank you for helping so many do that!"

"The reason your website is so wonderful is not because you offer a
'cookie-cutter' approach to FMS and other illnesses associated with it, but
because you offer so much information and help that each individual has the
opportunity to try many different things, to see what will work best for
him/her. But, even more importantly, because you give God the glory."
 
"I am 35 years old and have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia. I am thankful to find out that what I have been experiencing is not all in my head and I am now trying to figure out what will work for me to relieve my symptoms. I came upon your website and found some great information."
 
2. POST TRAUMATIC STRESS MAY ALTER PAIN SENSITIVITY
From a reader--
http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/01/09/traumatic.stress.pain.reut/
 
3. DR. POESNECKER
From Reader #1--
"I don’t know if you have read Dr. Gerald Poesnecker’s book called Chronic Fatigue Unmasked. I have been in conference with Dr. Neville from the Clymer Healing Center in Quakerstown, PA, which was founded by Dr. Poesnecker (Dr. Poesnecker has since passed away). Although there are some philosophical writings by the doctor that I do not agree with, his concept of chronic fatigue is amazing. He states in his book that CFS (which I am sure could also include FM) is caused by one or two things – or a combination of both – which are the following:
1) a weakened system since birth and/or
2) an extremely stressful life or illnesses
His belief is that most people with CFS were born with a weakened adrenal system, passed down to us by previous generations. He explains how we try to help ourselves, push ourselves, only to get worse. I have found more help and comfort from his book than any other book I’ve read!!"
 
From Reader #2--
"Dr. Poesnecker explains in his book Chronic Fatigue Unmasked 2000 that his theory is based on having low functioning adrenals. He mentions that he would rate his patients based on a score of whether he thought they always had low functioning adrenals (hereditary) or whether a series of stressors, or a catastrophic stressor or trigger placed too great a burden on the body. I know in my case this is exactly the truth, since I’ve had 4 Adrenal Stress Index profiles in the last 3 years, all of which show that I have adrenal fatigue. I have severe, disabling fatigue, anxiety off the scale, sleep disorders and a host of neurological symptoms like paresthesia (tingling and burning sensations in the skin and muscles all over my body), visual difficulties, tinnitus, etc. I believe I was about 50/50. I always struggled to be as healthy as others, but the combo of antibiotics/menopause/a near fatal reaction to thyroid meds nearly destroyed my adrenal function. JJust this alone (not withstanding that CFS is caused by virus, stealth pathogens or something else) is enough to explain MANY of the symptoms we all have. Namely, that we have hyper-sensitivities to light, sound and a complete inability to handle stress. The adrenals simply cannot keep up with the demands, the hypothalamus goes on alert, prompting many of the neurological difficulties since it is the ‘interface’ with outside stimuli and I might add directly connected to the central nervous system processor. I was the gal that wrote to you before and said I was considering being treated (but ONLY by phone) by the Clymer Healing Center in Pennsylvania. They have been a great help in understanding how my adrenals and hypothalamus (HPA axis) do not function correctly, prescribing adrenal compounds like Adrenal Cortex Extract, Mil-Adregen and now small amounts of Cortef because my adrenal function is still not working right. At this point I think they’ve been all the help they can and I’m going to be seeing Dr. Gilbert Manso in Houston a very vocal Christian, PTL. It very well may be that we all have a similar profile personality wise, but Dr. Poesnecker and Dr. Neville who took over his practice say that a majority of their patients who come for treatment for CFS have, in fact, malfunctioning adrenals, EASILY diagnosed by a saliva test. Now whether they had it to begin with or developed it after the ‘trigger’ that began CFS, Adrenal Fatigue or Fibromyalgia remains a mystery."
[See my page called TRYING HARDER AND WHY IT DOESN'T WORK FOR CFS at www.fms-help.com/trying.htm.  Also, see my page on ADRENAL INSUFFICIENCY at www.fms-help.com/adrenal.htm - patients are overexcited when they should rest and sleep, but tired and weak when they need to function.]
 
4.  MODIFILAN
From a reader--
"Modifilan is a concentrate of brown seaweed. It takes 40 lbs of seaweed to make 1 lb of of the product.
Here is the the main link: http://www.modifilan.com/letters.html - But this link breaks the explanation down better as far as reading. Please note the writing about Alginates and how similar it is to Cholestyramine. While Cholestyramine gives you constipation , this actually facilitates bowel work, Admittedly, Cholestyramine does it faster and may be best to stick with it for a while if you can deal with constipation and such. It also is a synthetic product. This Seaweed has so many other beneficial effects other than toxic removal.
http://www.modifilan-seaweed-extract.com/AboutModifilan.aspx?rd=1&categoryid=1&keyword=modifilan
I have seen it advertised at eBay for $22.95 by a company named "aliveandaware.net" which I have dealt with and had very good service."
[Fortunately, I have not had constipation with cholestyramine, but I am only using 1 scoop per day. According to Dr. Shoemaker's protocol - doc who wrote MOLD WARRIORS, you should take 3-4 scoops per day, but it's hard to fit that into my schedule. Still, I am improving!  See my mold page at www.fms-help.com/mold.htm.]
 
5.  METHODONE
(revisited from www.fms-help.com/011607.htm - Topic #5)
From a reader--
"I also felt 'possessed,' if you will, on trazadone & remeron....really was just "junk" that I tried & dumped in the toilet a few days later many years ago. As for my 3rd week on methadone, I am no longer taking vicodin or xanax and pain is minimal. I have not gone thru any "withdrawal!". I really am afraid to believe it. Am still having difficulty taking 5mgs. 3 x day as am just too sleepy. So have to drop to 2/day to function well. But function I do: I went shopping for 4+ hrs. 2 days last week!!!! I haven't been able to do that in YEARS! Will have to learn to pace myself all over again as the days in between shopping splurges were not pleasant, but not totally disabling. A day of shopping like that a month ago, would have left me hugging my mattress for weeks!! So I will be the "methadone lab rat" for y'all!"
 
6. COMPASSION
From a reader--
"Over the past ten years, I took an antidepressant, which made me gain thirty pounds, and caused me all kinds of terrible side effects, in addition to the Fibro!! So, I stopped taking it, and not only feel a lot better, but feel more like "me" and I've lost the thirty pounds and now weigh what I always have weighed since I was an adult, which is a "normal" weight. Being overweight taught me to have compassion for people with weight gain "issues" since I was always slender for my entire life, and thought that people who were overweight just didn't 'control" their food intake, or exercise enough. So, now that I have been "overweight" with no control over it, I understand how it feels, which is good. Compassion is one of the most important qualities that we must all have in this life."
[I have learned this too! If I had not had to struggle with FMS/CFIDS since 1982, I would probably be very judgmental toward people who complained of these weird symptoms. I have come to realize that God knew what He had to do to improve my compassion and understanding, which I know now is even more important than enjoying perfect physical health.  My 3 personal stories about having fibro, CFS and insomnia are at: www.fms-help.com/fibro.htm, www.fms-help.com/fatigue.htm, and www.fms-help.com/insomnia.htm.]
 
7.  ANKYLOSING SPONDILITIS
(revisited from www.fms-help.com/012907.htm - Topic #6)
A reader works with a young father who has ankylosing spondilitis and she asked him about it. Here is what he wrote--
"The most profound and immediate improvement [with my ankylosing spondylitis] seems to be by following the strictest Candida diet. In short, eat ONLY meat (unprocessed), non-starchy veggies, coconut oil, olive oil, lemon juice, eggs, real butter (the only dairy product), and probiotics. There is nothing else that I can eat and feel well. I would be happy to answer any specific questions if you want to pass on my e-mail." - Scott scottbutts@netzero.net
 
8.  PAIN WORSE WITH RAIN
From a reader--
"My pain is significantly increased whenever it either gets rainy or we get the dry desert winds called "Santa Anas" here. The beach weather is usually quite temperate and that's been extremely helpful for me! So, weather does affect me!!"
[Damp or rainy weather used to make me ache more from my fibro also. Heat or cold did not. Was diagnosed with FMS in 1982 - see www.fms-help.com/fibro.htm.  I have been 95% pain free for many years now, although I still have limitations of my energy and need to rest.  A list of things I currently use/do is at www.fms-help.com/what.htm.  My husband says I have remember I'm 55 and not 25 anymore.....ha! My mold problem may be going away finally....at least I sure hope so.....see update below.]
 
9.  DOM'S MOLD UPDATE
"CSM powder (cholestyramine) was a prescription from my doctor at St.
Vincent's who worked as a Capitol doctor in Washington, DC. I
asked him to prescribe it after reading MOLD WARRIORS by Dr. Ritchie
Shoemaker, sent to me by George, a newsletter reader. Dr. Shoemaker's site is at
www.chronicneurotoxins.com. I am supposed to be taking 3-4 scoops per day,
but only take 1 (due to time limits on when you can take the stuff). CSM tastes pretty good
(fruity) - you mix it in water and I add a small amount of apple juice for
flavor. It's a generic drug now and the can was only $10 at Walmart pharmacy
- a bargain compared to the financial drain I had last year with so many
expensive meds. One of them, an inhaler because I couldn't breathe, was $97!
I told the pharmacist I would just have to die. However, after negotiations with my doctor's office,
they got the price "down" to $63 and I bought it - and it didn't help! This
mold illness has been one of the most frustrating things I've dealt with.
Because my cholesterol has been high (273), the doc thought we could try CSM even
for that purpose, but you don't have to have high cholesterol to use it. It absorbs
both mold and cholesterol. You don't stay on it once you are well, unless you get re-exposed to
mold. Last week I had 3 good days (I had energy, felt alive, did not cough or feel
there was an elephant on my chest). Maybe this stuff is working. I've
also got some of my other meds and supplements tweaked a little, and
I'm feeling better! Thank God! Mold is BAD NEWS! See my page at www.fms-help.com/mold.htm.
 
10.  MICROWAVING SPONGES
(revisited from www.fms-help.com/012907.htm, Topic #20)
From a reader--
"Apparently many people tried to microwave DRY sponges after seeing this tip on the net, and started fires, and broke microwaves. Sponges have to be WET to use this technique safely and not NUKED until dry."
 
11.  CHOLESTEROL
(revisited from www.fms-help.com/012907.htm, Topic #7)
From a reader--
"I just got this book from a health food store, so I can sound like I know what I'm talking about when I tell my Dr. I'm not going to take Lipitor anymore: Statin Drugs - Side Effects and The Misguided War on Cholesterol by Duane Graveline, M.D. He's a former NASA scientist & astronaught. His website: http://www.spacedoc.net/. I went researching because I just can't afford the Lipitor right now, but I'm glad I did! Search amazon for "Statin Drugs" and you'll get quite a few other books along the same lines. Seems like a lot of them were written by doctors, too."
 
12.  FRONTIER MEDICAL INSTITUTE
A reader asks if anyone has tried Dr. Terry Grossman at the Frontier Medical Institute in Colorado. If so, how did it work out?
 
13.  PLEASERS
Reader 1--
"When I attended Dr. Jacob Teitlebaum's lecture in Stamford, CT this past summer, he too placed a type A personality at the top of the category for those who acquire CFS/Fibro. However, it's not just somone being hard -driven. It's the person who is hard driven because they have to please others and have the need to feel needed. They don't know how to say no to anything. This is entirely different from the hard-driven executive who burns himself into a heart attack because he's climbing the corporate ladder. Trust me, he knows how to say no, mostly to his family and friends.  The type of hard-driven Teitlebaum was taking about is the one where you already have 10 things on your platter but you would feel guilty if you didn't watch your friends' kids on the very night when you're preparing a report for a meeting in the morning, and oh by the way mom, I need a costume for Halloween tomorrow. So you watch the kids, who are bratty, sew a costume and stay up until 2am writing the report that you get up at 6am to get into work for that early meeting in order to give it. This type of driveness provides no room for the person to respect themselves. Most people in the helping professions fall into this category (in otherwords, how many overweight doctors/nurses tell you to lose but refuse to take the time out for themselves) as do 9 out of 10 women. Interesting how CFS/Fibro hits women most frequently.   On top of this constant self-imposed stress, which lowers immune resistance and most likely burns out the adrenals, Dr Teitlebaum said that he and the doctors he's trained have stopped as "Did you have a traumatic event happen?" and just ask "What traumatic event happened just before you developed CFS?" Even when someone says nothing, he'll ask what was happening in their lives around that time. Inevitably the person will say something like "Well, I was in the middle of a nasty divorce...." People of this personality type are so used to being over-pressured that they don't realize how traumatizing that is or that it's an event that places them high up on the stress scale. Illness is another thing that's right up there whether it's yours or a family members'.   People don't realize that the constant stress of being a type A pleaser personality reduces your immune system to mush as well as burns out the adrenal glands. They're really always on the brink before a life event pushes them over the edge. In otherwords, their glass is so full of water, there's no room for anymore. When the life trauma or major challenge hits, the water spills over the edge.  As for the not exercising, when I crashed with CFS I was going to the gym 3 X's a week and had a personal trainer. I'd always been active, had always exercised, and enjoyed the outdoors. When I was at the Teitlebaum lecture, I found others who had a similar story. It's after the CFS/Fibro hits that one finds it so hard to get back into an exercise groove because what you're capable of doing is different each day. However, people with CFS/Fibro have been shown to have lower glutathione levels and more difficulty detoxing chemicals from their bodies...and we're all taking something for this. Exercise is an effective tool to help our bodies detox. In fact, sometimes the stiffness and pain is more from toxin buildup than the fibro."
 
Reader 2--
"I almost always get an upper respiratory illness just before Christmas.  3 years ago it was bronchitis for 6 weeks, this year it was a sinus infection for that long.  Yet I end up hosting his son and daughter-in-law and everyone acting as my being sick is no big deal.  I'm convinced that the hosting instead of putting myself to bed is the reason I end up on a second round of antibiotics.  So we finally came to an agreement that if I end up sick another year, he'll take on the hosting duties, I'll put myself to bed, and when they come we'll just tell them I've been sick and need to rest.  Here's some money - go to the store and get what you'd like to eat.  Meanwhile, please keep the noise down.  That way, he can see his son and I don't feel responsible for making them feel welcome.   Took my after holiday stress level way down.  Maybe I won't dread the thought of the holidays next year."
[Years ago, I read a book called THE PLEASERS by Dr. Kevin Lehman.  I identified myself right away as a pleaser, and I'm sad to say, for a short while after reading the book, I was saying NO all the time to people - like toddlerhood revisited - but I eventually came into balance.  If you read this book, just be careful not to alienate those you love by a sudden personality change......ha!]
 
14.  IDENTITY THEFT
Watch this short video by a Sheriff on YouTube
Identity theft from autos, especially in Florida--you don't need the stress of something like this happening to you.
http://video.sheriff.org:80/psa_cartheft.shtml
 
15. OVERACTIVE BLADDER
A reader asked me a question about this and here was my response,
which may be helpful to other readers with this problem--
"I've been using 02 sachets since 2001. I get them from
Nutronix.com.  When my OAB was really bad, I would put one of the
sachets in my water bottle that I take everywhere. At
home, I open a sachet and pour the "sand" into a plastic water container
that I keep in the fridge. There are many ways to alkalize your body (for
instance putting a drop of ingestible grade essential oil in a glass of
water, or through diet - avoiding foods that make your pH acidic.)  For me,
I have to avoid orange juice, oatmeal and sometimes tomato-y foods like
spaghetti.  I have been doing lots better lately with the use of essential
oils, but that's a whole 'nother story....  The mineral sachets are easy to
use."
 
16.  VACCINES & FMS/CFIDS
From Reader 1--
"The stress and burden of carrying the world on one’s shoulders can give way to Fibromyalgia….but what is 'Fibro?' Where did it come from? I’m still convinced that Dr. William Wong’s research is correct: Latent Polio and other vaccines that went dormant in the body 40 years ago, when we were young and resilient, will release with a vengeance under the stress and burden-bearing emotions of our later years. There have always been people with stress and burden-bearing—The Depression; WWII; Persecution; Famine; etc. But FMS was an unknown. It was not until our generation—the Baby Boomers—who were the guinea pigs for Polio and other vaccines—that FMS and CFIDS became an epidemic. By the way, CFIDS-FMS is almost non-existent in 2nd and 3rd world countries. They certainly have stress and burdens—but they don’t have vaccines!"
 
From Reader 2--
"I got CFIDS as a teenager.  I was 17.  I was very happy, getting straight A's again after a period of rebellion, had been accepted to the college I wanted, and had lots of friends, etc.  I was already in counseling due to the rebellion stuff, and was very happy and well adjusted.  I had not been a sickly child, though I had been under a lot of pressure around school but it didn't really bother me until  I was about 13, because school was always easy for me.  However, I got an experimental vaccination at the age of 12, and after that, I began to get sick a lot.  I had a blood test about 6 months after that vaccination that showed so many white blood cells they had to evaluate me for leukemia.  This shot has been denied by the state, county, and city where it was given to me.  In other words, it never happened.  Why would they do that?  I don't know.  But a friend of mine in that same line for that free vaccination also has a very bad case of CFIDS. I see a 100% correlation between that d*** vaccine that was free--so my working class mother went ahead and got it for me- and my health beginning to unravel, culminating in one of the worst cases of mono at the age of 17 that anyone had seen.  It never went away.  That was over 22 years ago, and I still suffer from this and that horrible symptom, and I've learned to cope and adapt.  But I have high titers of Epstein-Barr (about 7 years after I had mono I actually tested positive for a monospot again), Parvovirus B19, and HHV6A.  Personally, Acyclovir (antiviral) has helped quite a bit.  I would strongly suggest you read 'VACCINE A' by Gary Motsumoto.  I have had emails with this writer, and he has confirmed through an anonymous government source (so he can't prove this, but he has plenty of proof about the other incidents) that a vaccine using the adjuvant Squalene was given to children in the late 70's and early 80's."
 
 
17.  STRESS & CANCER
From a reader--
"In 1999 after many years of chronic pain & major sleep problems, I finally had to give up my work as I felt that my body, physically & mentally, was totally burnt out.  Later on that year I developed the cancer condition Hodgkins Disease,also known as Hodgkins Lymphoma which as you may know is a cancer of the lymphatic system.  What I won't be able to prove is that the previous stresses put on my body over the preceding 12 years had any bearing on the onset of Hodgkin's, but it probably had some impact on it.  The Hodgkins was successfully treated with radiotherapy but unfortunately recurred in 2004/2005 when thankfully it was successfully treated again, this time with chemotherapy."
 
18. CANNABIS
(revisited from www.fms-help.com/012907.htm - Topic 24)
"I can attest that cannabis will help with sleeping, but smoking it makes one cough, and I can't say that it is 'good' for you.  I have a lot of problems sleeping, too, but I can't smoke anything because of my lungs."
 
19. ALGAE & STEM CELLS
From a reader jhipkins@aol.com--
"I am a real estate agent that has fibromyalgia.  Before I started taking algae, I would have to come home and take a nap once or twice a day. I didn’t think too much about it because I was 62 and thought it was because I was getting older. After starting algae I hardly ever took a nap. There's an all natural stem cell product [Stemplex] to help your body reproduce its own stem cells. I am now 72 years old and very active selling real estate. 2 days after I started with this I found myself sleeping much better. My legs must not be as restless because my bedcovers are hardly moved at all, before sometimes I would even find some of them on the floor. Also I have not had to take a pain pill since I have started taking it. www.simplexityhealth.com/joanne.
 
20.  RESPONSES TO LETTER FROM COLLEGE FRIEND
Here are some responses  (could not print all, but these are typical) that I received about my friend's email about the causes of FMS/CFIDS--

"Sounds like self-righteousness to me. Everybody knows what the other person should do. Frankly, I was offended."

"Wouldn't it be lovely if this was true? All we would have to do is 'relax' and we would all be fine. However, we know from our collective experiences that FMS and CFS are more complicated than that. You may recall that it was not so long ago that doctors believed that PMS was due to stress and was 'all in a woman's head.' Now we know that PMS is a hormonal problem. Someday, we will find out what causes FMS/CFS. In the meantime, we should all take the best care possible of ourselves. We should eat right, exercise, laugh, have a positive outlook, etc. However, please let's not blame ourselves for these conditions. I refuse to believe that being hardworking, caring and responsible has caused this. We all know in our hearts that it is not the case."

"I do not buy your friend's explanation. Yea I too do a lot, but I also have had one problem after another since age 16. It equaled a dozen surgeries and much more. I grew up on a farm, we raised our own natural foods, (beef, veggies, chicken, pork) and I come from a very spiritual family devoted to Jesus. Sorry, I just think your friend is grouping folks together. Nope! Not buying it."

"I just read your [response to your college friend] and I feel like it was written by me. Your friend is so far off base. She makes firomyalgia sound like a cult that we have all chosen to join. It is what it is and I believe every one has their own way of coping.  I thank God for people like you who really care about people like me. You always put such a positive spin on the subject that you write about. You never pretend to know it all but you are so generous in sharing what is going on in your world and methods you have tried for coping."

"I can see why that email from your former
classmate bothers you. To me, she is too forward,
too
bossy, too know-it-all, and too 'preachy.'
You, on
the other hand, are sensitive to others' needs and
feelings, and try to offer help in a loving, compassionate way.
Don't let her bug you any further."
 
"I truly feel that those of us that come down with these illnesses are genetically predisposed to getting them...and the Type A, driven folks who do not come down with FM/CFIDS after a trauma of some kind (physical/mental/emotional; after a long time of stress or a short time) are NOT predisposed to developing them.  I think that genetic predisposition has to be 'in place' with a person in order for them to possibly develop these illnesses....and I'll bet that some folks with the predisposition that experience trauma in their lives do not develop these illnesses...so, to some degree, I think an added factor is just plain old bad luck!!  So, with predisposition in place, and bad luck, then comes the trauma, of whatever source:  physical (like me, a car accident I feel was the trigger); emotional; and mental.  I don't think everyone with these illnesses is as lucky as your friend seems to be, 'recovering' from FM/CFIDS.  I truly believe that you can have varying levels of these illnesses.  I don't think that the type of personality you have (driven or more laid back) is that much of a factor in developing FM/CFIDS...at least, not for all of us.  I have never been a super, gun-ho Type A, BUT...I have been a caring person all my life and maybe too much so. Proudly, I now say 'no' a lot more than I say 'yes'!!"
 
"Researchers have found genes now that predispose someone to CFS/Fibro.  The toxins you're exposed to in utero set you up for later life disease.  And the cause and effect are so far removed from one another, it has been hard to link them."
 
"Type A people do not have a patent or copyright on
gathering CFIDS/FMS diagnosis labels.  In our group we have a child
diagnosed at the age of 18 months, her biggest stress being a wet diaper."
 
"When I went for a second opinion for FM at Duke University, they told me up front that people who had FM were ones that had always taken care of others.  I said, 'Bingo!'  That coupled with severe job stress."
 
"Not all folk stress out in the same way, with the same results.  Stress seems to attack the weakest point in the body; therefore for some the result might be fibromyalgia, for others it might be cancer or some other malady."
 
"What about inherited predispositions, the environment we can't control, even Adam and
Eve's original sin?  I believe there have been studies of the personalities of those
with FM/CFS and the results were that
it is NOT true that most with this
disease are of the perfectionist, overachiever
type. Maybe it only looks like
that because those of us who are like that are the ones who keep on looking for
help!! The other personality types may just give up."
 
"I don't think I am over-responsible.  I might sometimes be Type A but am just as happy to laze the day away reading and thinking I never moved and shook the world.  Barely worked a total of 2 years in my whole life.  I have tried every supplement under the sun, with little or no great results.  Chlorella, spirolina, blue green algae, brown algae with fucoidan, oxygen, biostrauth, milkthistle extract, borage extract, wachters mineral and seaweed vitamins, Energy C powder, noni juice-evil stuff, coloidal minerals by that Dr. Wallach, Flanigan water, homeopathics, b12 tablets, stupid Juice plus tablets, www.seablue.com transdermal vitamins, Peppermintplus pills, freshly juiced carots and apples, wheat germ, and on and on and on, acupuncture, ouch!"
 
 "It is foolish and arrogant for someone
to say that if you are not healed it is all your fault. I have already
pointed out the sheer stupidity of that stance not so nicely to a
new-ager at a health food store."
 
"According to the pain specialist I used to go to when I suffered from RSDS, people who are type A personalities have what’s called a “high sympathetic tone.”  This means basically that type A people are more ‘wired’ in temperament and thus have a more keyed up 'fight or flight response' which basically puts these people at a greater than normal risk of developing neuro-muscular disorders, especially when under stress.  Thus your friend is right, but for physiological reasons more than psychological ones.  The keyed up sympathetic nervous system is why you’re type A in the first place."
 
"I do wonder if the stress and or being an over-responsible workaholic is causative or coincidental. I say this because we have 2 neighbors with fibromyalgia, I have not heard of their also having chronic fatigue syndrome. I would not characterize ether as being over achievers. Both have had stresses to deal with, but I do not believe the stresses were any different the those enjoyed by others in the community."
 
"It's not surprising to me that people with FMS/CFS feel better when they
take some stress out of their lives, and take better care of themselves
nutritionally. So do people with syphilis, TB, Lyme disease, cancer, and
even just ordinary people!!! It doesn't constitute a 'cure' for the disease.
I hate to 'dis' your college friend, but she really hasn't discovered any
magic cure. In fact, she may be EXTENDING people's agony by implying that
their feeling sick is caused by their attitude and/or not eating enough
vegetables, etc. She'll wind up making people (like YOU) feel worse about themselves,
because she makes it THEIR fault that they don't feel better.  
This 'positive attitude' stuff annoys me greatly.
It is a convenient tautology: if you feel sick, you don't
have a "positive enough" mental attitude. If you do your best to have a
positive mental attitude and you still feel sick, well then, you simply
aren't trying hard enough! No way to break THAT chain of logic!
Ignore your friend's advice - she is clueless."
 
"Your friend's email bugs me too! I suppose this approach works for her, but I do not think this is applicable for the FMS/CFS sufferers in general. However, this has been the attitude many doctors have taken that I've visited and I must say, it's very tiring.  Like you, on the advice of said physicians, I have taken exercise classes and fairly extensive therapy all to remain the same or decline health wise. I have dealt with this condition for at least 25 years and am in a terrible flare presently.  This journey has been long and exhausting.....your newsletter gives hope and reassurance to so many of us fellow sufferers. God bless you for your commitment to keep it going."


 
Til next time,
 
Dominie Soo Bush
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