DOM'S FMS/CFIDS NEWSLETTER
www.fms-help.com
 
May 23, 2009 - Memorial Day Weekend
 
A Christian-based newsletter for people with Fibromyalgia (FMS), Chronic Fatigue & Immune Dysfunction Syndrome (CFIDS), or Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) and their families.
 
26 TOPICS IN BLUE.  READERS' COMMENTS IN BLACK.  MY COMMENTS IN TEAL.
 
 

 
1.  READERS WRITE
 
"You do a WONDERFUL service for everyone who is suffering and needing support."
 
"I am now reading your site in tears.  I am 28 years old."
 
"I?m so grateful to you for putting together such an amazingly helpful and inspiring website www.fms-help.com.  It really has been a revelation for me to hear someone else describe my own symptoms so clearly and to know that it?s NOT ?all in my head?.  I cried with relief when I first read it!  Thank you so much for showing me that there is hope for ME/CFS/FMS sufferers."
 
"Your newsletter is so informative."
 
"I really enjoy your mailings. It is comforting to know that there are those out there that experience the same thing, though I wish there were none."
 
"As usual, I INHALED your newsletter!"
 
"I am very much enjoying your letters I no longer feel quite as alone."
 
 
2.  PHYSICIANS FOR PATIENTS
 
From Art Kaminski MD, President, Physicians for Patients at www.physiciansforpatients.com--

"I am writing to make contact in regard to a new Fibromyalgia resource that is available:
www.fibromyalgia.physiciansforpatients.com

We are a group of doctors dedicated to helping people online in a way to help with high health care costs. The idea is to give a resource to people that need alternative opinions and information. There are a lot of people that have limited access to health care (either uninsured, simply can't afford it, or can?t find a specialist in their area). This way it is easier for a smaller number of physicians to help a larger number of people.

Patients, family, and supporters of those with fibromyalgia can ask a physician specialist any questions they may have. (everything is free).

Dr. Vallance is the doctor. He is board certified in Rheumatology. He trained at The University of Michigan.

The format in which we are doing this is via a virtual support group.

The site is part of a larger site, www.physiciansforpatients.com. You can select the ?Our Physicians? tab to see all of the participating physicians and their credentials. As a result of an overwhelmingly positive response from Fibromyalgia and Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS) patients, these chronic pain conditions have become our focus."
 
 
3.  MEN'S FIBRO CLOTHES
 
From a male reader--
 
"I liked the clothes article in the last newsletter www.fms-help.com/051409.htm.  But men are not really represented.  I do know that I have to wear baggy jeans to the point of almost looking like a gangster.  After wearing even sort of fitting ones, I get in pain, pressing on my below naval region.  I had some clothes stolen while at my apartment during my bad fall, naturally, my most comfortable pair of pants, jeans, went.  No one understood it." 
 
FROM DOM:  Good point.  We women can wear dresses that don't pinch, although we do have the bra problem.  I haven't been able to wear jeans or belts since I got fibro. It hurts my stomach and intestines somehow.  I have opted for comfort for many decades at the expense of style.  For lounging at home, how about sweatpants with either loose elastic or string tie?  For going out, I think they make slacks for guys with elastic at the waist so it will expand.  If you add an overshirt (don't tuck in), you can probably get by with a loose waist or in my case - unbuttoning a tight button.  Don't worry about what others can understand - we have our comfort clothes and WE NEED THEM!
 
 
4.  ITCHING & RASH
 
From a reader--
 
"You mentioned itching and rash in the newsletter www.fms-help.com/051409.htm.  In late October, I had this horrible mysteriously appearing rash, it looked like what they called urtikaria, big red welts, like a sunburn, but when you pressed it, the skin turned white.  I got prednisone, a 13 day taiper.  I then  developed a prednisone psychosis.  Could that rash havebeen related to FMS?  I never thought of rashes related to it, and I bet acne is, too."
 
 
5.  CELIAC, GLUTEN & NALTREXONE
 
From a reader--
 
"I have suffered with fibro for approx 3 years now and after spending thousands on doctors, meds, treatments and supplements... it's finally come to light that i have Celiac Disease!   Just like other fibro sufferers, i had to be my own advocate and keep pushing for answers and not just be happy with trying to treat the symptoms.  There had to be an underlying reason my body kept creating all the fibro pain and toxicity and now we've found out why.  The minute i got on a gluten-free diet - ALL my symptoms vanished !   Wanted to share this info with you to get the word out to others that they should keep pressing for the answer, even if the docs are happy letting you keep suffering.
 
One item to note... i did find a holistic md and got an appt with him 3 or 4 months ago.  At that time, he put me on Naltrexone to boost the immune system.  HUGE difference - i could actually vacuum and clean my house over the weekend and not be down for days afterward.  So this was the start of my bouncing back to somewhat normal.  It made all the difference in the world, and now it makes more sense bc my immune sys was so impaired from the celiac disease and gluten toxicity.  Anyhow, the gluten-free wheat-free/barley/oats diet is not easy... but Whole Foods has alot of gluten-free offerings and makes it much easier.  Trust me, the way i feel now - i wouldn't trade it for all the bread, bagels and pizzas in the world!
 
Please share this with your readers, hopefully i can help someone - even just 1 person would thrill me.   I purchased the book "The G-Free Diet" by Elisabeth Hasselbeck and it has helped me identify hidden sources of gluten that you'd just never think of.  It contains tips and helpful info about certain flours you CAN use and things to steer clear of.  I pretty much had to self-diagnose since the docs couldnt get it right.  One day in Barnes & Noble i picked up a book about sugar - thinking it was my problem - but nope, it didnt help.  Then i ran across the G-Free book and BINGO - everything fit me and it finally made sense why i was sick on my stomach all the time and tons of other symptoms.  Thanks for listening to my long rambling email.  Still, there are good days and bad days for me until i get the diet fully incorporated.  But the pain and fatigue is gone and it is truly a miracle."
 
FROM DOM:  Good info.  I have reported numerous times on celiac, gluten, and naltrexone in my past newsletters www.fms-help.com/newsletters.htm.  To read more on these topics, use the SEARCH BOX on that page.
 
 
6.  FREEZING FEELING
 
Response to reader with question about freezing feeling at www.fms-help.com/051409.htm--
 
"Freezing: I have this and it responds very well to 5 pellets of histaminin hydrochloride (30 C) homeopathic from Boiron at the health food store!! This works amazingly well for that horrible freezing thing. (I love homeopathics - they are inexpensive and work well with symptoms)."
 
 
7.  BABY'S COLIC
 
Reader's responses about colic article in newsletter at www.fms-help.com/051409.htm.
 
Reader 1--
 
"Colic: Gripe water (homeopathic, health food store can be helpful) I have also read that this can be caused by not enough fat in the formula. http://westonaprice.org/children/calming-colic.html.   Lastly, I would remove all chemicals from the baby as well. Use organic everything, detergents on sheets etc  Everything can affect your gut. Not that I don't believe in Probiotics.They are very important. I think they just need to consider other alternatives as well."
 
Reader 2--
 
"I am a believer in probiotics too, but I would certainly hope that they closely monitor a baby that they are giving goat?s milk too.  Yes, Goat?s milk is alkalinizing and easy to digest and therefore healthful, but it is ?orders of magnitude? more constipating than cow?s milk or mother?s milk.  I would sure hate to think that they are trying to cure colick only to inadvertently constipate a already-miserable child.  We tried goat?s milk in our family.  I loved the health benefits but the constipation problems associated with it are well-documented.  PLEASE warn these parents to closely monitor the BM?s of this baby, they may be completely unaware of this side effect." 
 
 
 
8.  USE OMEGA 3's ONLY
 
From a reader--
 
"All of the health food stores are still selling Omega 3-6-9 blends, but the one took look for is just the Omega 3.   Do not buy the Omega 3-6-9 blends.  Omega 6 is actually an essential fatty acid that our bodies need, BUT American?s get too much Omega 6 already in our sad diet and we certainly don?t need extra amounts of it in our supplements or our fish.  Happy eating (or make that healthy eating) to you.  Karri
  1. Large predatory fish. Shark, swordfish, tilefish, king mackerel, and white (albacore) tuna may have high levels of mercury. Pregnant women and children are particularly vulnerable to the effects of contaminants, and should avoid these species. (Small-catch tuna is OK, as it has high levels of omega-3s.)
  2. Omega-6 rich fish. Farm-raised tilapia is one of the most highly consumed fish in America, yet it has very low levels of beneficial omega-3s and very high levels of potentially detrimental omega-6 fatty acids. Omega-6 fatty acids are pro-inflammatory, and inflammation is known to cause damage to blood vessels, the heart, lung and joint tissues, skin, and the digestive tract.
  3. Farmed salmon. Avoid farmed salmon (also called Atlantic salmon), which is what you typically find in supermarkets, restaurants and fish markets. While less expensive than wild salmon, farmed salmon is lower in omega-3s and may contain residues of antibiotics and other drugs used to treat diseases in fish farming pens. What's more, levels of PCBs and other contaminants in some farmed salmon have been found to be much higher than those found in wild salmon. Always splurge for wild salmon for its higher Omega 3 content and less toxicity." 
FROM DOM:  I use an Omega 3 that I love.  It helps me with depression.  Write me dombush@bellsouth.net for info.
 
 
9.  ONIONS
 
From a reader in response to my comment about onions in Topic 20 at www.fms-help.com/042309.htm--
 
"Reading your newsletter, I remembered receiving the onion/mayonnaise scare in an email several months ago.  It seemed fishy to me.  Following is what snopes has to say!  www.snopes.com/food/tainted/cutonions.asp."
 
FROM DOM:  I still say it was the onions that made me so sick that night, but it could have been from a contaminated cutting board or unsanitary practices at the little drive-thru burger place.
 
 
 
10.  ANY "AWARENESS DAY" RESPONSES?
 
Did anyone receive sympathy or any sign of increased understanding about FMS/CFIDS from sending out Fibromyalgia Awareness Day letters or emails to friends and family on May 12?  I sent out a heartfelt email (below) to approximately 30 close friends and family and received only 1 reply.   Hmmmm.   Either nobody cares, they have their own problems, or they don't know what to say.  I "look" normal. 
 
A reader wrote this recently--
 
"We are modern day lepersNo one wants to know about us.  We are here to teach people - that is our lesson on this earth.  We will be stronger spiritually for it.  They won't.  Have pity on them - they know no better."
 
Another reader whose husband has FMS/CFIDS wrote--
 
"I have seen first hand the frustration that fibromites experience over the insensitivity of family and friends.   Unfortunately, my mother-in-law still believes that diet, and a change in scene (going to their house which is a long distance away) will make my husband better.  The last time she came to visit, my husband started shaking and stuttering so badly I was afraid that he was going to have a heart attack.  He told me after, that he never wants her to come to visit again.  It is so sad.  She seems to know it all, but knows so little.  She only takes out bits and pieces from literature that I send and wants to make him well.  Oh well, our heavenly Father knows all things and He will provide. 'Give your burdens to the Lord, and He will take care of you.'  (Psalm 55:22)  Don't let the ignorance of others get you down.  I will continue to love and support my husband unconditionally, just as your husband loves and supports you."
 
Here was the letter I sent to close friends and family on May 12, 2009--
 
Dear Family and Friends,
 
Today, May 12, is Fibromyalgia Awareness Day, so I am writing to the important people in my life. 
 
I don't want to bore you with details, but I feel that some explanation of my behavior is necessary since I don't look sick.  FMS/CFIDS is a chronic, invisible illness.  My experience with fibromyalgia began in June of 1982 www.fms-help.com/fibro.htm.  Five years later, I developed chronic fatigue syndrome www.fms-help.com/fatigue.htm after a lengthy viral illness.  I believe that FMS/CFIDS is a breakdown of immune and nervous system function.  I have a severe sleep disorder, debilitating fatigue, cognitive difficulties, and susceptibility to viral and bacterial infections.  I experienced continual pain during the first 14 years of my FMS, but that is gone now, thankfully.  There are degrees of FMS/CFIDS - some are able to work, while others are bedridden.  Some people vacillate between the two extremes, like me.
 
As an advocate since 1996 for people with Fibromyalgia (FMS) and Chronic Fatigue & Immune Dysfunction Syndrome (CFIDS), I have a website at www.fms-help.com.  Perhaps you know of other formerly active people like me who have been side-lined by this disabling condition.  A list of occupations my readers had when they became afflicted with FMS/CFIDS is at www.fms-help.com/occupations.htm.  We are a diverse group.  Contrary to current TV ads, there is no "cure" for this illness. 
 
I had the FMS/CFIDS managed fairly well until I worked in toxic mold in 2005 www.fms-help.com/mold.htm.  Since then, I have gone downhill.  One of the problems affecting my relationships is that I can't travel more than 30 minutes by car without collapse.  The inability to travel has cut me off from family and friends that I would love to see.  My social life is "zero."  I have to save my limited strength for the necessities - work (part-time piano teacher), church (playing organ/piano), and home responsibilities.  However, I am very thankful for the functionality I do have, and the many helps I have found along the way www.fms-help.com/what.htm.  I realize that many people have much worse problems to deal with, so I am not complaining!  I am also blessed with a loving and compassionate husband who knows what I go through on a daily basis and has been unwaveringly supportive of me and others with this illness. 
 
Every now and then, I have a good day and feel like a "normal" person.  Life is easy!  It's great!   However, I can never plan ahead.  I used to play the piano for weddings and special events, but now I never know when I will be functional.  I have had to cancel out of so many social events at the last minute, that I have found it is better not to promise, than to disappoint others and myself.  Here are some brief articles that explain FMS/CFIDS:
 
An open letter to anyone who has a fibromyalgia patient in his or her life
by Karen Richards
www.healthcentral.com/chronic-pain/fibromyalgia-287033-5.html 
 
When You See Me
poem by Mary Hastings
www.fms-help.com/poem1.htm
 
Dominie's letter to Congress 2006
www.fms-help.com/congress.htm
 
 My Name is Fibromyalgia
classic article by Terri Been
www.fms-help.com/mnif.htm
 
Thanks for reading this.  I hope you have a good day.  I sent you this email because you are important to me, and I care about how my illness affects our relationship.  God bless you for your kind understanding!
 
Dominie
 
 
 
11.  MAYO CLINIC PIANO
 
An older couple walked into Mayo Clinic and spotted a piano in the atrium.  They have been married 62 years and he will be 90 soon.  They are charming!  As a lifelong pianist, I enjoyed this so much - it will put a smile on your face!
 
 
12.  DOXYCYCLINE
 
From a reader--
 
"I just saw an advertisement for a new treatment for rosacea.
40 mg of doxycycline! In my opinion this may represent a
superb opportunity to finally get an effective treatment for
CFIDS, FMS, arthritis and other chronic inflammatory
mycoplasma infections.
All it should take is getting some
folks to ask their doctor for an off-label prescription. This
low dose treatment is "not for use as an antibiotic" (in a
"sub-antimicrobial activity" dosage) so the age old mantra
of fear mongering warnings about over-prescription of
antibiotics may finally have a loophole in it now. (the real
problem is not over-prescription, it's idiotic standardized
courses that are too short in duration, often because of
the side effects of too high of a dosage) Low dose long
duration antibiotics are the perfect thing to help curtail
slow growing chronic mycoplasma infections and the
hundreds of accompanying symptoms and "syndromes".

The biggest problem I can see with this is the potential for
secondary fungal (and yeast) infections, but there are many
effective alternative treatments for this common side effect.
Probiotics like Three-Lac, and JarrowDophilus, Undecyn,
Grape leaf extract, Digestive enzymes, etc.. Also this being
such a low dose of doxycycline should help prevent this
from being a major issue as shown by early studies.

http://tinyurl.com/LoDoseDoxy or
http://dermatologytimes.modernmedicine.com/dermatologytimes/article/articleDetail.jsp?id=383309

Who cares if they don't understand how it works? Finally,
something that potentially could be of use for the thousands
of sufferers of many kinds of chronic illness."
 
FROM DOM:  Doxycycline has helped some CFS sufferers.  Search my past newsletters at www.fms-help.com/newsletters.htm.   If anyone has tried doxycycline and would like to report their results, please write dombush@bellsouth.net.
 

13.  RISING TO THE CHALLENGE
 
From a reader--
 
"One thing I've learned with FMS.  You seem to always get through the important things that come up, and you deal with them....but when all is said and done you crash."
 
FROM DOM:  Maybe it's my age plus FMS/CFIDS, but I can't even rise to the challenge anymore.  I have to carefully orchestrate my life (work / church / home) to not overload the circuits.  Stress is our worst enemy www.fms-help.com/tips.htm.
 
 
 
14.  MOLD & FMS/CFIDS
 
I hear from readers who have discovered, as I did, that mold exposure (in their home or workplace) makes their FMS/CFIDS just debilitating!  Here's my experience about working in a moldy building in 2005: www.fms-help.com/mold.htm.  I have still not fully recovered my health to where I was at before the mold exposure.  I feel sorry for fibromites who are living in moldy conditions who cannot change the situation.  It's impossible to feel better if you live or work in mold and happen to be in the 25% of the population who is highly sensitive to mold, like I am.
 
 
15.  XYREM
 
From a reader--
 
"I had sleep lab test done.  They found I get Zero amount of REM sleep.  So, I take Xyrem for sleep.  I have been taking it for about  a year. It literally  knocks you out and yes you do get REM sleep with it.  I tried Trazodone.  I like Xyrem better. It is a cleaner med, and leaves no hang over or weird side effects.  It is the most controlled med in the country. Only one pharmacy in St Louis is allowed to dispense it.  It is what they used to call  'date rape drug'."
 
FROM DOM:  I've reported on Xyrem in past newsletters - see www.fms-help.com/newsletters.htm.  A list of everything I've tried for sleep is at www.fms-help.com/sleep.htm.  My insomnia story is at www.fms-help.com/insomnia.htm.  A list of things I use now is at www.fms-help.com/what.htm.
 
 
16.  SLEEP IMPROVED
 
From a reader--
 
"Since I'm now taking two scoops of the immune balancing powder, my sleep has improved."
 
FROM DOM:  Here's a list of everything I've tried for sleep at www.fms-help.com/sleep.htm - the immune powder helped me also.  Write dombush@bellsouth.net for info.
 
 

 
17.  SUICIDAL THINKING
 
From a reader--
 
"I feel for the person who wrote on suicide www.fms-help.com/051409.htm.  I had a friend pray for me to get Satan out of my life, because of all the suicidal thoughts.  It is only the fact that I dont want to disappoint God, and my belief in Him, and dont want to go to hell, if it is worse than the hell we go through every day...that sometimes stops me from taking that final step.  Then the next day, I cant believe I was so suicidal, and say now I had done it?  I have to remind myself how much Jesus suffered.  It just makes a difference to some people who for example, have cancer, knowing that the disease has an end, but ours does not."
 
FROM DOM:  See www.fms-help.com/suicide.htm.

 
18.  OLDEST PERSON WITH FMS/CFIDS
 
From a reader--
 
"There has been much research lately on the physical effect/affect (cant remember which is which) of fibro on the brain.  Do you know of any research which is related to the average maximum age of fibro sufferers.  I just cant see, that if it is killing part of your brain  a little at a time, and 6 times faster than the average person, that one would live to be 80 or so.  I personally don't know of anybody older than 60 with it."
 
FROM DOM:  I have heard from readers in their 70's and 80's.  However, I don't know the oldest age of someone with FMS/CFIDS.  I take into account that many people over 80 are not familiar with computers, which is how they would be able to contact me, so that would affect the data I receive.   However, I do hear from people caring for an elderly mother with FMS/CFIDS, as well as people writing in behalf of a child with this condition.  If you have info, please write dombush@bellsouth.net with the age of the OLDEST person you know with FMS/CFIDS.  It would be interesting to know what we finally die from, and if it's related to FMS/CFIDS or something else.  This would be an important study for a researcher - to keep track of people with FMS/CFIDS for the next 20-30 years, and keep a record of "cause of death.  Here are some articles I found:
 
http://www.prohealth.com/library/showarticle.cfm?id=8197&t=CFIDS_FM - Causes of death among CFS patients
 
http://www.ncf-net.org/memorial.htm - CFS/ME patient memorial list
 
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn9342-first-official-death-from-chronic-fatigue-syndrome-.html - first official death from CFS in the UK
 
 http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000427.htm - There is no proof that fibromyalgia syndrome results in an increased death rate.
 
I found many sites about people dying as a result or complication of CFIDS/ME, but not from FMS.  If you find more info about death and FMS, please write dombush@bellsouth.netMy own FMS story is at www.fms-help.com/fibro.htm and my CFIDS story is at www.fms-help.com/fatigue.htm.  Both FMS and CFIDS appear to be caused by inflammation in the body, viral attack, stress or immune dysfunction.  I have many other causes of fibromyalgia listed at www.fms-help.com/causes.htm.
 
 
 
19.  CAUSES OF CFS
 
www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001244.htm#Expectations

The exact cause of chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) is unknown. Some researchers suspect it may be caused by a virus, such as Epstein-Barr virus or human herpes virus-6 (HHV-6). However, no specific virus has been identified as the cause.

Studies suggest that CFS may be caused by inflammation along the nervous system, and that this inflammation may be some sort of immune response or process.

Other factors such as age, prior illness, stress, environment, or genetics may also play a role.

CFS most commonly occurs in women ages 30 to 50.

The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) describes CFS as a distinct disorder with specific symptoms and physical signs, based on ruling out other possible causes. The number of persons with CFS is unknown.

 
20.  FMAWARE.ORG
 
From a reader--
 
"Thank you that your newsletter had that www.fmaware.org website. I was unaware of that fibro awareness site!  I read this webpage and was taken aback by the familiarity of some it.  Helloooo?stress, sleep problems, irritable bladder, headaches and migraines, impaired memory, Raynaud's Syndrome.  Whoa, all me!  Well, at least I am so thankful that I have the muscle aches and severe joint pain managed now.  Anti-oxidants like effervescent vitamin C, and antimicrobials like olive leaf extract make a huge difference for me which tells me it is an infection (sort of like Lyme?s disease is a rickettsial infection).  I have no doubt that in a decade they will determine that fibro is a chronic infection (probably mycoplasma) and have a quick cure just like they do for Lymes now. So sad that I see women in my fibro support group that can barely walk, yet there they are sipping on a diet soda!  If they would change what they put in their bodies they would find some relief, I?m living proof. But when you start talking herbs and natural antimicrobials, nobody listens.  I took my rheumatologist some journal articles from the Journal of Rheumatology that significantly pointed to a mycoplasma connection to fibromyalgia, he politely told me twice that he didn?t want to read/photocopy them, nor would he order a mycoplasma test for me.  Bizarre, that even good doctors can be so closed-minded.  He?s a super rheumatologist.  Anyway, I?ve gotten mostly healthy on my own with OPC-85, Saventaro, olive leaf extract, greens with dietary enzymes, etc. and I am doing really well as far as lack of pain the vast majority of the time.  That didn?t used to be the case!!!  I honestly believe if we could get every fibro gal we know off of soda and junk food, and onto a low-meat, organic diet with the following regime that we could change America.  It sounds like a lot, but I actually take numerous supplements every day, I?m used to it.   I still have sleep disturbances and irritable bladder, but my muscle pain and joint aches are much, much less."
 
FROM DOM:  About mycoplasma infection, see http://www.fms-help.com/mycoplasma.htm.  About doctors, see www.fms-help.com/doctors.htm.
 
 
21.  100 TIPS FOR COPING WITH FIBROMYALGIA & INSOMNIA
 
www.fms-help.com/tips.htm - lots of helpful advice
 
 
 
22.  "HEALTHIER WITHOUT WHEAT"
 
New book recommended by a friend--
 
www.amazon.com/Healthier-Without-Wheat-Understanding-Intolerance/dp/0976853795 - "Healthier Without Wheat" by Dr. Stephen Wangen is about celiac disease, food allergies and gluten intolerance. 
 
FROM DOM:  You can search my past newsletters at www.fms-help.com/newsletters.htm for references to gluten intolerance and celiac disease, which are sometimes mistaken for FMS.
 
 
23.  ASHAMED TO HAVE FIBROMYALGIA
 
From a reader--
 
"There are doctors out there (though too few) fighting very hard to establish a respect for the medical diagnosis "Fibromyalgia."  I am so ashamed to tell people I have fibromyalgia because of the reaction I have gotten from people in the past.  I often just say I have arthritis or lupus because it is easier. When you say you have arthritis or lupus no one says "well I hurt too all the time but I just have to work through it." or the many other hurtful remarks or questions posed. I have lost so much to this illness: the opportunity for a career, the wellbeing to pursue my interests, the option to raise my teenage children, the ability to continue pursuing a higher education, the freedom to drive, the certanity of my future, my right to plan ahead my relationships with friends and family...the list is so long. It is not fair to experience so much loss and then have to argue with what should be your support system and to suffer the loss of our dignity too! But it helps me to know that my doctor John B. Winfield M.D. http://medicine.med.unc.edu/divisions/rheumatology-allergy-immunology/faculty-profiles/john-b-winfield-md has been viciously working to educate family, friends, the public and most of all other doctors by publishing well supported medical articles about the neuroscientific facts and the medical significance of ours and other pain syndromes. You can find some of his work at emedicine by just entering the search words FMS or fibromyalgia. He speaks up about our experience with judgmental and inadequate health care providers. If the field of medical care providers can have their perception changed I believe they would influence the general public to also respect this as a legitimate illness. Anyway, I share your pain and sorrow about people's misunderstanding." 
 
 
24.  AVOID SOY MILK
 
From a reader--
 
http://www.naturalnews.com/026294.html
 
 
FROM DOM:  I had to give up cow's milk years ago due to respiratory allergies and weird hormone reactions.  I switched to Rice Dream Original Rice Milk to use on cereal and for making my immune shakes.  I tried soy milk but didn't care for it.  A lot of people with FMS/CFIDS have soy sensitivity - read my 100 Tips for Coping with Fibromyalgia at www.fms-help.com/tips.htm.
 
 
25.  DON'T WASTE MONEY ON THE ELDERLY?
 
Link from a reader--
 
http://www.onenewsnow.com/Blog/Default.aspx?id=527884 - "This is a sentiment heard more and more these days - because the elderly are such a drain on society we should just come up with a way to better manage the growing elderly segment of society......[note] the statements of Baroness Warnock in Britain who believes that people should soon be "licensed to put others down" if they are unable to look after themselves.  Why should the government waste money on the elderly (or the terminally ill or senile) who won't live for very long anyway.  Those resources could be better spent on other younger, more deserving people, right?  I am afraid that this scenario is exactly what will have if a national health care system comes to pass.  Watch the video."
 

26.  DOM'S UPDATE

I'm busy and doing fine, but had a rough spell last Saturday night.  Took my sleep meds too early, hoping they would clear my system by Sunday morning when I play the piano for church and have to be wide awake and alert.  For some reason I didn't fall asleep until 3 a.m., woke up at 6 a.m. and couldn't go back to sleep.  Grrrr!  (I know you know the feeling!)   Felt weird all day - hard to get through 2 services and choir practice without sufficient sleep.  Tried to nap in the afternoon, but it didn't happen...actually never does.  Sunday night I took my sleep meds later and slept fine.  For some reason, my system rebels against being a morning person.   I've been like this all my life...I'm now 57.  Thankfully, nights like last Saturday are rare for me anymore. 
 
My fibro began in 1982 after a year of sleeping about 2-3 hours per night due to severe job and home stress.  My insomnia story is at www.fms-help.com/insomnia.htm.  My sleep disorder began when I was 16, over 40 years ago.   A list of things I use to make my life more comfortable and functional is at www.fms-help.com/what.htm.  I have 100 Tips for Coping with FMS & Insomnia at www.fms-help.com/tips.htm, and there are lots of FASCINATING articles about FMS/CFIDS on my homepage at www.fms-help.com
 
I hope everyone is having a reasonably good week.  I'm thankful we have the internet to do medical research and connect with others.  The internet was not available in 1982 when I was first diagnosed - such a lonely, confusing time of pain, losses and misunderstanding.  See www.fms-help.com/interview.htm where I answered questions about life as a "fibro-newbie."
 
 This Memorial Day weekend let us remember our brave military personnel who died in the service of our country. "You gave up all your tomorrows so that I could have mine.  Thank you!" 
 
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."  John 15:13
 
Dominie
 

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