DOM'S
NEWSLETTER
July 23,
2010
Survey
results are in - see Topic 16.
A
Christian-based newsletter for people with Fibromyalgia (FMS), Chronic Fatigue
& Immune Dysfunction Syndrome (CFIDS), or Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.)
and their families.
1. READERS
WRITE
"I have mostly been a silent
member of the Fibro newsletter group, but want you to know I have
always appreciated all you do, the time you sacrifice, and the thoughts you
share from your heart."
"Thank you so much for all the work you have
done compiling so much helpful information! Your site www.fms-help.com has been so
helpful and I love the newsletters www.fms-help.com/newsletters.htm."
"I appreciate your
willingness to give, not only through your incredible newsletter, but the spirit
in which you do it. I can't remember how I found you. I've kept
all of your newsletters in my 'DOM' file."
2. PERSONALITY CHANGE
Reader 1--
"The
writer of Topic #13 (Personality Change) at www.fms-help.com/071310.htm is right on the spot.
The good news is the personality change is not permanent. It
actually is natural reaction to what we are going through and if by chance
things improve the old personality is still there and will come back.
Pain and discomfort demand your attention constantly. They are
like chains that have shackled you beyond discomfort and movement. If in
fact if you were shackled with real chains , would you be having fun , laughing
and enjoying things. No. your attention would be forced into the
discomfort you are in, whether you want it or
not. The problem is our “chains” are not visible. We feel them. We feel
how they limit our life and demand our attention, but others can’t see
them. So, instead of them concerning themselves with the miserable
chains you are wrapped in, they only see the symptoms you are going through and
can’t figure out why? They can’t figure out why you are not
as “bubbly” as used to be. So, it is our job to explain to them best possible in word
pictures what we are going through. The best way I have found explaining
the pain and discomfort of CFS/FM is to explain that the
symptoms demand your undivided attention, whether you want it or
not. This leaves little energy and happy neurotransmitters to enjoy
things, since they are used up fighting these ugly
symptoms. Again, the good news is that her
personality is not changing, but for now is distracted by the illness.
Ones personality is pretty much set by early teens and under right
circumstances it will always blossom forth."
FROM DOM:
Ahhhh! This is so reassuring!
Reader 2--
"I am going to the Fibro
center in Dallas and
the jury is still out. Every time I go back they
find something else
wrong that needs to be treated (EBV, lead poisoning,
hormone imbalance,
etc.). I also have mold in my house which I think
could be keeping me
from getting better. I really related to the
section in the newsletter
about personality changes. I
have been really hating myself because I
just don't seem to care
about anything and I want to. I read my Bible
and pray that
the Lord will help me to care again. I feel like an empty
shell
of a person and I have a 7 year old who needs me to be more
than
that. My husband has been so wonderful through all this, he is
the
reason I am still going at all."
Reader 3--
"When I took my Psychology class in college I learned that our
personalities were actually fully developed at the young age of
5. In my
mind I thought it took years with life experiences to
develop a
personality but my professor said
no."
Reader 4--
"In regards to the personality changes www.fms-help.com/071310.htm that
can take place with our illnesses, I tend to disagree; A personality change
would imply a different PERSONA...I, too, have noticed that I am not the
same bubbly person I used to be; there use to be a LOT of
laughter in our home ...and it is a bit quieter now.
It is quite a coincidence that this dawned on me just a week or so ago,
before receiving the newsletter. I use to get a kick out of all the small
things; I STILL enjoy the one-liners my youngest grand daughter comes up
with....I still laugh at the way the dog can "smile" and the
cat thinks he is human, BUT the "KICK" is gone. These
changes, in my opinion, do not come from a different personality. They
come from dealing with so much pain...it is my opinion that when living with
pain 24/7 (and in my case since 1995), we LOSE the laughter. Is it not
most of our "complaints" in this are about having lost laughter? I don't
think that constitutes a changed personality. I would like to know more
what these experts describe as personality changes. PAIN takes
away the lighter side of life; PAIN changes our focus.....I would imagine HUNGER
would do the same....I did not go from one "type" personality to another....I
simply LOST a part of myself....the lighter side. the rest of me
...whatever is left...is the same me."
3. EXHAUSTION
From a reader--
"Re:
www.fms-help.com/071310.htm, Topic
#14 - Pain will wear a person out. Unknown to oneself,
the person is actually fighting around the clock , fighting the pain. This is
wearisome. Additionally, toxicity, excess bacteria load and parasites
will exhaust a person. Shortage of Oxygen is another
culprit. If I could recommend this person to take 2-4 teaspoonfuls of
Monolaurin( to reduce parasite and bad bacteria load) , a spoonful of
Ribosome, and your
Oxygen drops it would help a lot. Additionally,
thyroid and adrenal problems can cause exhaustion. About 4-5 drops of
Nascent Iodine in the morning and adrenal glandular will help a lot.
However, care must be practiced with these and be sure she is not actually
suffering from shortage of these hormones. DHEA also is another
substitute for adrenal hormone."
FROM DOM: I tried
Monolaurin for awhile during my worst CFIDS years, but I think I kept getting
sick when I took it, if I recall correctly. I also used to take DHEA,
but not sure it helped. Everyone is different. We all have to
experiment. The
oxygen drops have done the most for me (been using them
since Aug. 2009). A list of things I take currently to stay functional is
at www.fms-help.com/what.htm.
4. COLUMNIST FOR OPRAH MAGAZINE HAS
FIBRO
From a
reader in the St. Louis, Missouri area--
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5. LOTSA MONEY
From a reader--
"I happen to call Dr. Klimas
whose clinic just opened in Miami and the charge is $900.00 for an hour and you
never see the doctor just a practitioner....I'm finding more and more CFS
doctors are charging so much."
6. DATING WITH
FIBRO
From a reader--
"I totally understand how this
person feels (www.fms-help.com/071310.htm, Topic
#38). I
became chronically ill when I was 22 and my life has never been the same. I was once very athletic, outgoing, and
quite pretty. The diseases I suffer
from have totally changed my looks and my personality. I have Fibromyalgia & Chronic
Fatigue (diagnosed at 22), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (took almost 18 years to
get properly diagnosed), which also caused me to have Diabetes, High Blood
Pressure, High Cholesterol, and Thyroid Disease. When I was in high school and college, I
had a very active social life.
Guess I should have married the men that asked when I had the chance, but
I was waiting for my “Mr. Right”!
Unfortunately because of my health, I don’t think I’ll ever find
him. I’ve lost most of hair from
the PCOS and all the medications I have to take, can’t seem to take off the
extra weight I keep putting on (even with exercise & diet) and, to be
honest, I really just don’t have the energy to go out and meet new people. I’ve had a lot of people make fun of me
because I'm "so quiet" or "don't ever go out with the gang after work" or "still
single after all these years", but I've decided it doesn't matter what everyone
else thinks of me...just what God thinks of me. I'm okay with not
being in relationship, and I have family & friends that I spend time
with. Life's not so bad, but I often think about how much different my
life could have been if I were still healthy."
7. READERS' PRAYER CORNER
Sally -
"Sure could use prayers. This cancer is a mystery.
I'm having another brain MRI and PET scan Monday and will start
chemo Wednesday. Very anxious about all of this and the
effects on my family. God is a great God and I believe He is walking
with me even at this time, and will not leave me, but a few extra prayers surely
couldn't hurt!"
Susan - update
on her fibro friend's daughter, Meg, a young
mom who gave birth last week and had to undergo chemotherapy for leukemia
immediately following delivery. Meg's husband Ryan has set up
a website at www.prayersformegan.com. They
determined that the type of cancer Meg has is AML/Acute Myeloid
Leukemia. Her lungs seem to be responding well to the chemo.
Dom -
Joni Eareckson Tada, who has been quadriplegic since age
17, is undergoing chemo for breast cancer. I just read an uplifting update
from Joni at http://www.joniandfriends.org/jonis-corner.
She mentioned one of my favorite hymns, "Be
Still My Soul," and also an idea about "on-line
missionaries" - an exciting idea, even for us fibromites!
8. ALL-NATURAL SLEEP AID DID NOT
WORK
From a reader--
"Yes i have tried
Restful Night Essentials (www.fms-help.com/071310.htm, Topic
29) and it did not work at all for me. It actually worked as a stimulant.
It gave me heart palpitations. I sent it back for a refund. Everyone is
different. Here is what works for me for sleep, earthing pad on my bed,
earthing pad at my computer station. I got rid of my wireless and went to
cable internet access. Got rid of cordless phones and minimize time on the cell
phones.Minimize EMF exposure. At night 45 min before bed 300mg 5 HTP.
(Swansons brand 100mg extra strength 5htp) 1/2 hour before bed a cup of
passionflower tea. Seriphos (lowers cortisol) one at 6:00pm one at 8:00pm and
two just before i lay down to sleep 10:30 ish. I eat a snack at 9:00 5-6 almonds
or a tsp of almond butter. IMPORTANT have a cup of milk 15 minutes before
bedtime this enhances the uptake of the 5 HTP. Also, be sure to add a
tablespoon of organic salt for every 8-10 glasses of water you drink. TAke
additional iodine in the form of Kelp iodine daily. For more information go to
www.watercure.com
The 5htp will not work well if you are not hydrated properly. I am able to sleep
deeply now after a very frustrating bout with insomnia. Don't give up - you
will be able to sleep again!"
9.
"LIFE IN A DAY" OF A FIBROMITE
From a
reader--
"Youtube is teaming
up with a director and a producer who wants anybody and everybody to
film their day on July 24th, 2010. Here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/lifeinaday. I think it would be interesting for CFS and Fibro
sufferers to film living with these illnesses. And who knows, if
their video gets picked it will bring awareness and maybe some
understanding."
10. BREAST CANCER SUPPORT FOR THOSE WITH
FMS/CFIDS
From Charmaine charku47@aol.com--
"Dom, If you
ever come across anyone that needs support dealing with breast cancer, please
know I am here if you need me to contact someone. I will be happy to help.
I still have a long way to go myself, but I made a promise to help anyone along
the way. - Charmaine charku47@aol.com"
FROM DOM: Charmaine is a newsletter reader who has
just undergone breast cancer surgery and is starting chemotherapy and
reconstructive surgery. We had a prayer request from Charmaine prior
to her surgery in the newsletter at www.fms-help.com061210.htm (Topic 8): "Charmaine - "I have invasive breast cancer and am having
a mastectomy on the left side a lumpectomy on the
right on June 16. I am terrified due to my chronic pain of FMS,
osteoarthritis and 2 bulging disks in my neck (with arthritis between
them). Needless to say I take narcotics daily to control the pain so I can
function. I hope they can get my pain under control after
surgery. I am so afraid, I know I am in God's hands but I have never
had major surgery before, the thought of possibly needing chemo also, just
having the flu last year with the FMS, I thought I was dying then, the pain was
so awful. I just would appreciate any
prayers."
11. POSITIVE EFFECT FROM BLOOD
TRANSFUSION
From a reader--
"As a three-four year sufferer
and patient at Vanderbilt Medical in TN I felt that I was not making
progress. Two weeks ago, I was experiencing severe abdominal pain, which I
figured appendix....went to ER at another area hospital and they scanned me
and decided that I would be with them for a time. First, a mass believed
to start in ovaries, still awaiting one more biopsy. Many other things
that would take days to tell you. One of the most unusual things tht
happened however, was that I was so anemic, I took several
units of blood (and will need more as chemo begins).
The results of that were---my extreme spider veins are near
non-existent, dr could not explain and have never seen that. Also the
exploding feeling in knees and shins has diminished greatly in pain
factor. Ever hear of anything like this? If any reader ever
heard of blood transfusions with these changes, I would love to
hear about it."
12. CHECK YOUR MEDS FOR
INTERACTIONS
FROM
DOM: This is a great site that I personally use: https://www.iguard.org.
13. FLAX?
From a reader--
"Just been reading your latest
newsletter www.fms-help.com/071310.htm -
regarding FLAX..... there is a current argument against flax by Dr. Mercola....
he says it is not well or properly absorbed in the human body... versus taking
krill oil which is 10 PLUS times more bioavailable and absorbed. See
http://www.foodconsumer.org/newsite/Non-food/Miscellaneous/from_deceptive_boardrooms_to_closed-mind_thinking_1307100716.html."
14. ADVICE FOR MCS
(MULTIPLE CHEMICAL
SENSITIVITIES)
From a reader--
"For those who suffer with MCS,
it can be quite fustrating. People do not understand us
because they can not even imagine not just being unable to use chemical products
such as fragrances, shampoos, skin care products, etc. Remember that our
society conditions us to smell like something else. Little girls are
conditioned from early child hood to be just like mommy and want to put on
lotions, powders and smelly good stuff. Generations have been conditioned
that these products are safe and they have no idea that the manufacturers of
these products can be harmful even to those who do not suffer from MCS.
They are unaware because our society and government do not tell the truth about
such products, and that the use of harmful chemicals are not governed by our
government. Chemicals in our care products, cleaning products, and food
are laiden with harmful chemicals, but because we are a society that just
doesn't know what the real deal is.
Take your MCS and turn it into something good. Use
it to teach others. Tell people your story, and tell them that it could
happen to them at any time. Use gentle tactics and use a
tone that is not intimidating. When they think about it, they say that is
really awful. I am glad I do not have to go through what your are going
through. I wear my mask when I have to, and when someone asks, I tell them
that I am not sick in a way that they will be affected, but that I am protecting
myself from harmful chemicals that make me very ill. They are usually very
sympathetic.
My home is my safe zone, and I do tell my
family and friends that I insist that my home is my safe zone away from
the harmful chemicals that make me sick. That I may have to
tolerate it in public, but I do not have to tolerate it in my home. I ask
them to please respect me and my safe zone. I let them know that I will
enjoy their company much better if they refrain from wearing the chemicals that
make me sick for sometimes days. When someone knocks on my door, like a
politician or sales person, and I can smell them, I tell them that I have severe
chemical sensitivities and must ask them to leave. It usually saves me a
lot of money.
My employer has accommodated my need to move
me to a location that I am not amongst those that smell of fabric softener, hair
gel, perfume, cologne and laundry detergents. It has helped greatly. Not perfect
but my tolerance is much better. I asked my supervisor to tolerate the
fact that I do not mingle in after work activities, or group functions of any
kind. I do not participate in activities that would further expose me to
multiple chemicals. It is just the way it is. The work place has
become aware that air-fresheners in rest rooms is something that is not needed
and seems to have refrained from replacing the units when they run out of
fragrance.
I rarely go to weddings, or church, I
still can worship with out going to the gatherings. and I keep my visits
to public places very minimal and short term. I tell my family
that if I go off by myself not to be insulted, but to understand that I must
remove myself from places that are not healthy for me to be in. I do not
shop at times when people are coming from church or on days I know the store is
busier than usual. These places, I can leave if I have to. At work
you can not leave, so using my knowledge, I have convinced management that I
need reasonable accommodations. I also have explained that medical
documentation is hard to obtain. It is just something that no one really
understands why it happens to some and not to others. But I can tell you
this.... It will happen to more and more as time goes on and there will be
changes made when everyone finds out what is going on. It is just a matter
of time. It took years for the non smokers to win their battle, and will
take maybe just as long or longer for those with MCS to attain similar
accommodations.
In the meantime, I do what ever I need to do
to try to recover from exposures. To rebuild my immune system that
has been damaged by a severe systemic candidiasis. Glutathione is
key. So eating protein, and watching what I use everyday in my
own care products is very important. I use peppermint oil to mask the
odors and calm me and relieve my headaches. On a bad day, I take an
epsom salts bath to detoxify, and find that a green food diet has really
helped. Chlorophyll helps cleanse the body. I have gone to
staggering like a drunk and running red lights, to being able to manage
the symptoms with changes to my diet, and changing where I expose myself.
For not avoidance is my best option.
I am a mild case from what I am hearing, and
there are those who suffer much more than I do. My prayers for all of you to
recover and rebuild your immune system. I have spent
a lot of time researching nutrition and trying to put the puzzle pieces
together. But I know that I am getting better all the time. I ask
Him everyday to help me be strong, and to give me the strength to recover my
health, and to help me help others like me."
15. SICK
FROM STRESS OF WEDDING
From a reader--
"My husband and I met before I got sick.
Several years later, the stress of putting the wedding together (I don't
handle any kind of stress--bad or good-- well!) caused enough symptoms
that the doctor thought I might have fibro. After we came back from our
honeymoon I had the mother of all flares and have been coping with fibro ever
since. Eventually I lost my job, many of my friends and occasionally my mind :-)
Thru it all my husband has been steadfast in his love and support. I am
a very lucky woman."
FROM DOM:
Indeed! Now where can we find more guys like him?
16. SURVEY RESULTS - SPOUSAL SUPPORT
OF FMS/CFIDS PATIENTS
FROM DOM: Well, I
think everyone who is going to reply to the survey has done so by
now. The
survey asked 3 questions:
1) Are you
male or female with FMS/CFIDS?
2) Is your spouse
understanding and supportive of your condition?
3) Age range of your spouse?
Below are the
results.....Please
note that this was a small, unscientific poll with 227 respondents (220
females and 7 males)--
RESPONSES FROM FEMALE FIBROMITES ABOUT THEIR HUSBANDS
(LISTED BY HUSBAND'S
AGE):
Age
20-30: 83% supportive; 17% unsupportive (total respondents:
6)
Age
30-40: 65% supportive; 35% unsupportive (total respondents:
23)
Age
40-50: 60% supportive; 40% unsupportive (total respondents:
52)
Age
50-60: 75% supportive; 25% unsupportive (total respondents:
71)
Age
60-70: 84% supportive; 16% unsupportive (total respondents:
55)
Age
70+: 92% supportive; 8% unsupportive (total respondents:
13)
RESPONSE
FROM MALE FIBROMITES ABOUT THEIR WIVES (LISTED BY WIFE'S
AGE):
Age
20-30: no respondents
Age
30-40: no respondents
Age
40-50: no respondents
Age
50-60: 75% supportive, 25% unsupportive (total respondents:
4)
Age
60-70: 100% supportive (total respondents: 3)
Age
70+: no respondents
I don't know what, if
any, conclusions can be drawn about this poll. My husband's theory was
that younger husbands of women with fibromyalgia would be less understanding
than older husbands, but that does not appear to be true, at least according to
our small poll amongst newsletter readers. I was happy to know that the
majority of married fibromites do have understanding mates. That is a
comfort, since the rest of the world sure doesn't get it. But I was also
concerned by the many who do not get support at home for their illness. I
would love to have seen all poll results as sweet as the men with fibro who have
wives in the 60-70 age group who reported 100% were understood and
supported. This poll might be better if done by a larger organization,
like the National FIbromyalgia Assocation, which could get thousands of
respondents. My feeling was that all spouses generally become more
understanding of their mates as they grow older, by becoming wiser and more
compassionate from going through some of life's torturous wringers by then and
thereby developing sympathy for others who suffer. I wish we had heard
from more males with FMS/CFIDS, since there are many on my mailing list. I
have a page for men with fibro at www.fms-help.com/men.htm. In
some ways, their predicament is worse than ours, since they are expected to be
breadwinners for the family, be stronger than women, etc. But this is an
equal opportunity illness www.fms-help.com/occupations.htm.
I have heard from men whose wives were very unsupportive of their illness, as
well as from those whose wives are the "angels" in their
lives.
17.
ROSACEA
From a reader--
"Rosacea. I had three blue light treatments done - huge expense but I was
desperate. My face was fine for 3 weeks after the last treatment and then I had
THE WORST flare up ever in the 4 years that I have had rosacea. I was tired of
the antibiotics and antifungal creams as they made the skin
worse. I looked like I had warts all over my
left cheek and the area had grown larger where the rosacea tended to
be! I didn't want to have my picture taken and felt almost as bad as
I did when I had acne as a teenager. I came
across the GM Collin skincare line, and to my disbelief and utter
amazement - after only using the products twice (one evening and the next
morning) the bumps were gone!! I have only
used the products for 3 weeks now, and went back to the spa/salon to show the
lady who helped me, how much better I looked. I actually look ok in pictures now
and don't feel a need to wear makeup to try and cover anything
up. You can find the products in select spa/salons
or on line at www.spaboutique.com. A bit more expensive but it actually truly works. And you only have
to use such little product for great results. I have tried numerous other
skincare lines that were specifically for rosacea, but nothing
worked. I use the GM
Collin Sensiderm Cleansing Milk, the Sensiderm Treating Lotion, the Vasco-Tonic
Concentrate(this is an important component of the skincare regimen), and the
Sensiderm Gel (or use Sensiderm Cream if face is not
oily)."
18. WHEN
TO TAKE YOUR MULTI-VITAMIN
From a reader--
http://products.mercola.com/multivitamin-vital-minerals/?source=nl - Snippet: "It's vitally important to know when to take your
multivitamin.You should take a few multi tablets first thing in
the morning and with lunch, or with an early dinner to help optimize your
nutrient absorption, the better chance you'll have of truly fortifying your
diet. Before we jump further into
all the natural nutrients I believe should go into a multi, let's first take a
closer look at why all multivitamins are not created equal. Some may in fact, negatively impact
your health in such a way they should be flushed down the
toilet."
FROM DOM: The article
goes on to say that whole food vitamin/mineral supplements are the best,
and I agree 100%. Early in my experience of FMS/CFIDS, I
discovered the value of whole food supplements. Synthetic vitamins do
not help and may do more harm than good. In 1996 I began
using whole food vitamin/mineral supplements and highly recommend them.
Click here for
info. If you have any questions, write dombush@bellsouth.net.
19. "COPING WITH CHRONIC
ILLNESS"
From a reader--
"Book: "Coping with Chronic Illness"
(Neck and back pain, Migraines, Arthritis, Fibromyalgia, Chronic
Fatigue, and other invisible illnesses) by H. Norman Wright and
Lynn Ellis http://www.christianbook.com/coping-with-chronic-illness/h-wright/9780736927062/pd/927062."
FROM DOM: Wow! Whatta book!
You can read a lot of it at the link above. These authors definitely
"get it!" Would love to get this book!!!
20. TEEN WITH
FMS/CFIDS
From a reader--
"I am 17 years old and have been suffering with my fibromyalgia since
i was very young. The symptoms started around the time I was 12.
Ever since then it's been a constant uphill battle against the
pain, depression and insomnia. At times it feels like my body will just
collapse at any moment and in some cases has. I have been struggling in
school because of this disorder as well. I've had to miss so many school
days because I was either too exhausted to wake up or I was in too
much pain to move. I have been given a plethora of medication to help but as I
was reading in your article they too have left me feeling hung over and
sluggish....I have been told I was lazy and that I just
use the so-called pain as an excuse. I just want a
pain free future."
FROM DOM: I really feel for those
young people who have a complicated, invisible illness. I have a
page about kids and teens with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome at
www.fms-help.com/teens.htm.
21. DELAY IN RELEASE OF CFS
STUDY
From a reader--
22. "UNHEARD VOICES" - TELL
YOUR STORY
"Are you living or have you recovered from ME/CFS or FMS? How many
times have you become overwhelmed with emotions you keep up inside that come
from not being believed or were not being believed? You are burdened with
wanting to talk and yet not wishing to sound that you are complaining or feeling
sorry for yourself. There is healing in talking and you have a right to be
heard. I would like to give you that opportunity.
This project has
been on my mind for some time but the right opportunity never seems to present
itself. However, I think that moment has now arrived. I have
tentatively titled it Unheard Voices – My Story.
I would like to tell
your story along with others, not only to help you but also to help those who
are in a similar situation so that they would know that they too can survive and
go on. They can learn from your experiences and solutions as
you can learn from theirs.
You can choose to identify yourself, stay
anonymous or take on an alias in the story. I would like to disclose at
least the country where you’re from as I am making this a world-wide project. We
are united in coping with an illness as illness has no conscious or
bias By sharing your story, someone who has become discouraged
may find the courage to go on.
If you would like to participate, please
contact me and put my story in the heading. Your contact will be treated
as confidential and will not be disclosed. Please use just
plain word format in your story and keep in mind that it needs to be relevant to
the topic. There is no age limit.
There is no timeline on this project as
of yet but if done in time I am hoping that it can be used for a fundraiser
towards the cost of the 2011 IACFS/ME research and clinical conference we are
hosting in September 2011 here in Ottawa."
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And this update a few days later--
"First of all, thank you so much for your immediate response. The
outpouring has been tremendous and it will take me awhile to respond to you
all. I have some suggestions to make when you are telling your
story. I know you're worried about the length of your story so I suggest
the following:
1. First write your story exactly as it enters your
head and what you are feeling without worrying about length;
2. Once
you have it all written down, give it a rest and then return to it and look it
over;
3. Now, keeping in mind that it is going to be read by others,
start editing it as if you are writing an article for a newspaper; and
4..
Finally submit it to me.
For parents who have children or youth who are
ill or have been ill, please let your children write their story from their
perspective and feelings while parents can relate their experiences and how they
dealt with their children being ill.
From my own experiences in the past,
I one day sat down and wrote my story. The first thing I noticed when I
started is that I had a very hard time doing it. It brought back all kinds
of hurts and emotions and what I thought would be a simple process of putting
down my feelings turned into an emotional battleground. Once I completed my
story and dealt with the feelings and losses while writing, I was later
able to look at it more clearly and write a summary which I still have but
haven't looked at anymore. This turned to be a healing process. I
hope it will be so for you."
Lydia E. Neilson, M.S.M.,
Founder
Chief Executive Officer
National ME/FM Action Network
512 - 33
Banner Road
Nepean, ON K2H 8V7 Canada
Tel. (613) 829-6667
Fax (613) 829-8518
E-mail: ag922@ncf.caWeb:
http://www.mefmaction.net
23. THE RECOVERY PHASE OF
CFS
From a reader--
24. DERMA-MAG FOR FIBRO
PAIN
25. OXALATES
Reader 1--
"Oxalates are presently a hot topic on the autism lists. (Certain yeast /
fungus can create oxalates.) Susan Owens is the researcher who
discovered that a low oxalate diet helped many of these children.
Fortunately, there are certain bacteria that can break down the
oxalates. Susan Owens says that VSL#3 probiotics contain a bacteria that
breaks down oxalates. However, she says that there are other bacteria
that are more efficient at this, but they aren't commercially available
at this time."
Reader 2--
"I am responding to the posts about metal tests and
oxylates. I did
have what they call a provocation
test or a challenge test. I went to
an environmental
practitioner who gave me an IV of DMPS and EDTA. Then
for the
following 8 hours I collected all of my urine in a little tub.
At the
end of the eight hours I mixed the tub around and filled one
vile
full. I then sent that off to Doctor's Data Lab. After finding
high
amounts of mercury and cadnium I went through about twenty or so
chelation treatments going back and forth between EDTA and DMPS. This
can be very hard on the body. I am now doing oral capsules instead of
the IVs. It's less harsh and moves at a slower pace. Upon later
testing I started dumping lead.
One thing that is very important is
to get your methylation cycle
function tested. To do this look at
Genova Diagnostics or tests
through Dr. Amy Yasko or Dr. James
Roberts. This mechanism needs to be
functioning before doing heavy
metal detox. In order to get this
functioning you will need to take
certain supplements like folate
(folapro), B-12, Vit C and others that
will get your glutathione
levels up and aid in detox. Find a doc that
knows what they are doing.
A good place to start is acam.org or
aaemonline.org.
Do some research on what they are doing with
autistic kids. It's the
same thing that needs to be done with FMS
patients. Detox the body and
treat all infections. Infections to look
for are CPN (chlamydia pneumoniae),
Mycoplasmas, HHV
6, CMV, EBV, Candida, Fungi, and XMRV. There
may be others as well.
Also we need to repair the GI
tact.
Also important are (biofilm) treatment protocals. Once you
start
treating the biofilm that surrounds infections not only will you
start
dumping more metals you will also be able to effectively
treat
infections. Research it.
Look at Dr Dietrich Klinghart's
Protocals for metal detox. Also Dr.
Garth Nicholson,
good info on infections in regards to FMS, CFS, and
GWS. Other good
doctors to look into are Dr Jacob Teitelbaum, Dr Paul
Cheney, and Dr
Michael Powell.
Now in response to the oxylates inquiry. I may be wrong
on this one
but I suspect that Dr. Paul St. Amand's Guaifenesin
Protocal may be
removing oxalic acid and/or tartaric acid from the
body and/or
treating Infections. If you do your research on
Guaicum you will find
that it has been used as an anti-fungal
and antibiotic for hundreds of
years. Guaifenesin, in the
past was used as a Gout medication as well.
I have read research that
states that uric acid in Gout can be caused
by fungi. Also, I believe
that Guai may help with blood and lymph
coagulation.
The Great Plains Lab has found high levels of
these acids in FMS and
autism patients. These acids can derive
from Candida / fungi. They can
build up in the body
causing pain and all sorts of problems.
Also, what I think is interesting
is that the first thing Dr. St. Amand
tells you to do is cut
out all sugar and carbs. This is exactly what
you need to do
with a Candida infection.
Is Dr. St Amand actually treating Candida and
he doesn't know it? His
protocol is based on pure theory and if you
ask him he will tell you
that Guai could be doing something else. What
we do know is that where
you find mercury toxicity you will find
Candida and other infections.
What I think is interesting is if you
look at the symptoms of mercury
toxicity, Candida infection, and FMS
they are all so similar.
What I have found in my own test results is my
FMS is caused by a
genetically weak methylation cycle, toxicity, a
wrecked immune system,
gastroinstestinal dysbiosis, infections- CPN
and Candida,
hypothyroidism, HPA Axis and hormonal problems, and
coagulation. I am
seeing great improvement once getting these issues
dealt with.
FROM DOM: I've mentioned Garth
Nicolson, Dr. Cheney, Dr. St. Amand, guai, mercury, mycoplasmas, HHV, candida,
XMRV, infections, hypothyroidism, HPA axis, etc., etc. in my
newsletters and on my site www.fms-help.com
in many places - try a search for these topics using the Google box at the end
of this newsletter. About repairing the GI tract, the immune balancing
powder helped me greatly with that for a number of years. It works in the
"gut" where 80% of the immune system is located.
26.
DROXIDOPA
From a reader--
27. BIO-CELLULAR
ANALYSIS TEST
From a reader--
28. DOM'S MAGAZINE
ARTICLES
29. IMPROVED STAMINA
& LESS BRAIN FOG
FROM DOM: I have had a tremendous
improvement in my stamina and fibro fog since
I began putting
oxygen drops
in my water in August 2009. (I use filtered water from my
refrigerator.) The drops raise pH to a more healthily alkaline
level. You
start with just 1-2 drops in 8 oz. of water 3 times a day.
Only add a drop
every several days. I use 10 drops in 16 oz. of water
3 times a day. I
began using the
oxygen drops to prevent cold sores,
but what
a surprise to find out that it helped me with fibro fog and
exhaustion too. The
oxygen drops are one
of the most important things
I do for my health now. My complete list of things that help me is at
www.fms-help.com/what.htm. The drops are called Oxygen Force at
http://neveranoutbreak.com/oxygen.php?partner=FM5H1PDB. Acid causes disease
and pain. Raising the pH
keeps the viruses from doing their dirty work. This site has
a
book that explains it all. A little
pricey, but was worth it to learn how alkalizing and
oxygenating
can help you feel so much better. My
husband used to say that it was like I wasn't
getting enough oxygen to my brain. I was
on the verge of collapse every day.
My doc wouldn't prescribe (or even let me try)
a little oxygen to see if it would
help, because he said my blood oxygen level was
okay (but that didn't measure
how much oxygen my brain was receiving).
30. HAHA!
From a reader--
"I wanted to let you know that its been a rough 3 months. My computer is
down. It caught a virus and, well it's acting like me when I get sick. I think
it has FMS like I do.....poor thing! LOL!"
31. EXERCISE
LIMITATIONS & FIBROMYALGIA
From a reader--
"I just
found this site, http://arthritis-research.com/.
Looks like it has about 40 fibro-related articles/studies, and it lets you
access the entire article for free. Here's a link to a study that was published
March 30, 2010: http://arthritis-research.com/content/12/2/R55. I was very physically active before I had fibro, and
ten years later am still interested in reading about fibro and exercise. This
excerpt caught my eye:
“It is important to
note that even though the [exercise] group increased their mean daily steps by
54%, it only moved them… from the sedentary (<5,000 steps/day) to the low
active (5,000 to 7,499 steps/day) category. Indeed, the mean steps per day at
post-testing among the [exercise] participants were comparable to the mean daily steps observed in
patients with progressive neuromuscular disease, and are significantly lower
than other special populations such as diabetics, patients undergoing breast
cancer treatment, and those with joint replacements. This suggests
that, even with the initiation of [exercise], people with FM progress only to a relatively low level
of physical activity. It is important to note, however, that the
trajectory of the mean step count continued to rise over the 12 weeks suggesting
that, had the trial continued, their physical activity may have continued to
increase. It may be that people with FM require more time to eventually reach
physical activity recommendations compared to persons with other chronic
conditions.”
How do you like that!?
AFTER increasing their activity level from sedentary to low active,
these participants’ amount of exercise is STILL significantly lower than folks
with diabetes, joint replacements and breast cancer treatment! If that doesn’t
persuade doubters as to how disabling fibro and its accompanying limitations can
be, nothing will."
32. AIR
HUNGRY
From a reader--
"One of the FMS symptoms you mentioned is short-breath, air hungry.
For about 6 weeks now I have a severe short breath. It gets worse when I
go upstairs and when I close the windows at night, I feel that I have to
stay outdoors all the time to get a decent breathing to get abundant air.
I end up walking for an hour to get my cells oxygenated. But when I get
inside, the same short breathing recur. I panic when I can't get enough
air in my system because all our cells need oxygenated. What I first
noticed in the early stages of this FMS is my finger tips and toes (my
extremeties) get cold all the time. They also hurt, tingle, &
numb. Even when it's warm outside, I feel cold. And now I have a
hard time breathing. I appreciate any suggestions."
FROM DOM: Have you tried this
Proanthenols? It helps red blood cells unclump so they can get oxygen to
the brain and body tissue better. Another idea is
oxygen drops, which
alkalize and oxygenate the body. Check out Oxygen Force (drops you put in
drinking water) at http://neveranoutbreak.com/oxygen.php?partner=FM5H1PDB. Only use one or the other, but not both! From what I
understand, they may counteract eachother (one being an anti-oxidant and the
other an oxygenating substance - I'm not a doc or scientist, so can't explain
this further, except that I read about this somewhere). But both of these
have helped me through the years with my FMS issues. The air problem could
also be caused by our tendency as fibromites to feeling anxiety. I use 1/2
mg. of Lorazepam (generic ativan) once in the afternoon and once in the middle
of the night. One other thing
that helped me with breathing was a lung formula after my horrible bout
with toxic mold where I worked in 2004-2005 www.fms-help.com/mold.htm. About feeling cold even when it's warm, that is another
strange symptom I've also experienced with FMS/CFIDS. I mean, teeth
chattering and under 5 blankets when the inside thermometer read 75. It
felt like 35 to me. Our hypothalamus gland in the
brain is messed up, even being attacked by a virus or otherwise
malfunctioning. I haven't had this horrible feeling for a long time, but
remember several mega-incidences in years past.
33. INSUFFICIENT OXYGEN IN MUSCLES
From a reader--
"This pdf is interesting. If I’m reading it correctly, it’s
all about people with fibro not having enough oxygen in their muscle
tissue. I can’t figure out who wrote this piece or what year it was
written, or even if it’s been published - http://www.bioenergy.com/pdf/mf/sl/Fibromyalgia%20%28FMS%29%20&%20Chronic%20Fatigue%20Syndrome%20%28CFS%29/Ribose%20in%20Fibromyalgia%200505%20Revised.pdf."
34. DOM'S UPDATE
I'm doing fairly well. I'm not cured,
just managed. To me, "cured" means you don't need meds or supplements to help
you live a fairly normal life. A
list of things that are keeping me functional is at www.fms-help.com/what.htm. After 28 years with FMS/CFIDS, I am glad to
have an improved quality of life and less suffering.
I teach piano at a school of music
www.fms-help.com/students.htm and play the piano/organ at my church. I am grateful to God for these
blessings. Some days I feel and function better than others. On
difficult days, God has to really take over, because I have no strength in
myself. As the apostle Paul said, "When I am weak, then am I strong." (II
Corinthians 12:10) Seems like a paradox. I am thankful for the
level of wellness I have now, compared to the horrible suffering and
debilitation of years past. I found something that got me pain free in
1996, after 14 years of severe fibro pain, but still have other challenges
associated with FMS/CFIDS. My fibromyalgia story is at www.fms-help.com/fibro.htm.
My CFIDS story is at www.fms-help.com/fatigue.htm.
My insomnia story is at www.fms-help.com/insomnia.htm.
I have 100 Tips for Coping at www.fms-help.com/tips.htm.
Also - check out the many supportive and fascinating articles about FMS/CFIDS on
my homepage www.fms-help.com, especially
if you have a skeptic in your life.
Dominie Bush
dombush@bellsouth.net
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