Dom's FMS/CFIDS Newsletter
This lovely jewelry was made by my dearest childhood friend, Judy - with a bracelet to match! We went to elementary school together in the early 1960's....seems like yesterday!
April 18, 2011
A Christian-based newsletter about Fibromyalgia (FMS), Chronic Fatigue & Immune Dysfunction Syndrome (CFIDS) and Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) - sharing thoughts, research and experiences.
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TOPICS IN THIS ISSUE: 1. READERS WRITE 2. FMS, DENTAL WORK & TMJ 3. DREAM BOOST VS. SOMNAPURE 4. FROM HUSBAND OF FIBRO WIFE 5. EXERCISE SUGGESTIONS 6. TRUTHS & MYTHS OF USING GUAIFENESIN FOR FIBROMYALGIA 7. FOOT CRAMPS 8. IS CFS LINKED TO VACCINATIONS? 9. TOP 5 REGRETS 10. COCONUT OIL - GOOD OR BAD? 11. MAGNESIUM, MUSCLE CRAMPS & ANXIETY 12. INTERACTIVE LIGHT THERAPY FOR FIBROMYALGIA 13. GUT PROBLEMS LEAD TO DEPRESSION & BRAIN DISORDERS 14. DATING & FIBROMYALGIA 15. HELP FOR EBV & FIBRO 16. IRRITABLE BOWEL SYNDROME (IBS) & COLITIS 17. WANTING DISABILITY 18. ANXIETY, HEART PALPITATIONS & MCS 19. FLUPIRTINE HELPS FMS & INSOMNIA 20. LIDOCAINE & FIBROMYALGIA TRIGGER POINTS 21. DOM'S LETTER TO CONGRESS 22. HAPPY FACE 23. AMMONIA 24. READERS' PRAYER CORNER 25. SCHOOL DAY MEMORIES - CAFETERIA FOOD 26. "IN CHRIST ALONE" 21. PACING TO AVOID CRASHING 28. LOSS TO THE WORKFORCE 29. READER HAS QUESTION ABOUT CANCER TREATMENT 30. DOM'S DENTAL UPDATE
1. READERS WRITE
"Thanks for all your info. Your web site www.fms-help.com is awesome!"
"I have suffered from the symptoms of FM for at least 20 years, if not more. It seems I have always struggled with all of the symptoms at one time or another....I caught mono when I was 23 years old and that, I think, was the beginning of everything."
"Thank you so much for your time and effort. I read your newsletter each time you send it out."
"I believe God led me to your web site this morning!"
"You do an awesome job with the newsletter. I’m always learning something new."
"Thanks SO MUCH for the wide sources of information you provide! I think my body hit one of those stages of change where what was working before isn’t and am figuring out what it now needs. Your information source has been SO valuable!"
"Your newsletter has changed my life because it encouraged me to get a doctor that listened and treatment that really helps."
"God bless you for helping so many people and offering a forum for them to be heard."
"I am the leader of a small support group for fibro & CFS. The first thing I tell a new fibro person about is your newsletter because it has a lot of information in one place."
"Wow! what a bright spot I have found in my perusing of the web....Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your tips www.fms-help.com/tips.htm alone were a God send."
2. FMS, DENTAL WORK & TMJ
From a reader--
"I needed 6 teeth filled, well i was all ready to get them all done in one hit - to get it over and done with. Unfortunately didn't work out that way. Had 4 fillings one day and 2 the next. It turned out that 4 of the fillings were very deep and took much longer than the dentist was expecting. Teeth are all fixed now, but boy did those 2 treatments (an hour each time) take there toll on me. I have been two weeks barely able to open my mouth because the treatment set off my TMJ something shocking. I will never try and get a heap of dental treatment done in one hit again. It has really knocked me about. I guess i can look on the positive - because i couldn't eat properly i have actually lost some weight!! Not sure how much but can definitely see it with my clothes. ((: Anyhow, will be off again for now. In great need of a nap. I hope this will help you and maybe some of your readers make a more informed decision when it comes to the dreaded going to the dentist. lol."
3. DREAM BOOST VS. SOMNAPURE
From a reader--
"I've found a new (at least new to me anyway) product at the healthfood store that seems to work well for me. It's called "Dream Boost". Besides the B vitamins, calcium, mag, zinc and melatonin, it has a proprietary blend of several things known to help sleep - Calea Tenifolia, Mugwort, Passionflower, 5-HTP, Wild Lettuce, Green Tea, DMAE. The first night I took one and had vivid dreams - didn't stay asleep all night, but I did go right back to sleep and felt rested in the morning.....you can take 2 if needed but I haven't tried that yet. Here are the ingredients (per tablet): http://dreamboost.com/supplement-facts/index.php."
FROM DOM: I've been experimenting with Somnapure for sleep (in addition to zolpidem, which is generic ambien). Here are the ingredients of Somnapure (per 2 tablets): http://www.peaklife.com/?fb_lgid=168&fb_lpid=1647&fb_itid=3152&pid=200&nid=25 - Snippet: Sommnapure contains natural ingredients that you are probably already familiar with. Together, this scientifically formulated, intelligent blend of high quality ingredients is what makes Somnapure effective and non-habit forming. Somnapure's sleep blend includes melatonin, L-Theanine, valerian extract, lemon balm, hops extract, chamomile flower and passion flower. More on these below:
MELATONIN - Helps regulate sleep patterns. With age, melatonin levels decrease, which is why it's important to supplement this loss for improved sleep patterns. - 3 mg
L-THEANINE - Is an amino acid derived from herbal teas. Commonly found in green tea, it calms your mind. This amino acid is thought to have a relaxing effect on the mind by increasing alpha-wave activity. Relaxing is an essential part of falling asleep.- 200 mg
VALERIAN EXTRACT - Is a perennial herb that has been used for centuries to promote relaxation and sleep. Valerian is thought to help improve the amount of time it takes to fall asleep and the quality of sleep. - 500 mg
LEMON BALM - Is also a perennial herb in the mint family that has been used for centuries to promote relaxation and sleep. Early research suggests that lemon balm promotes a calm and relaxed state of mind, which is an important part of falling asleep. - 300 mg
HOPS EXTRACT - Research suggests that the combination of hops and valerian help increase alpha-waves. This then helps to reduce the amount of time it takes to fall asleep and improves the quality of sleep. The popular folk remedy for sleeplessness is a "pillow filled with hops." -120 mg
4. FROM HUSBAND OF FIBRO WIFE
From a reader--
"How does your husband deal with this ? My wife has very hard time sleeping she generally stays ups til 3:00 or 4 in the morning and I get up for work at 5:00 she then sleeps til 1 or 2 in afternoon. she is reading all your info as I type and is going to try some of the things you mention. I love her to death but this is very very trying condition for both her and me cause I hate to see her suffer through it and it limits what we can do as “couple” even to go out to store together is sometimes very difficult to do together. We are Christians too, it is very difficult to not get angry though… my wife is good person and I feel I am too. Just can’t understand why? We are both retired now and we can’t enjoy what should be best times of our live. We just found a local support group that we are going to try out maybe that will help. We are going to try some of the things you suggested. There's a verse in the Bible in Corinthians, I think, that says something to the effect to show love not through words, but through actions."
FROM DOM: This is a common scenario in fibro-families. This man has described exactly what my husband, Donnie, and I go through too. We are empty nesters (will both be 60 this year), and I am unable to travel more than 30 miles from home due to ......it's a long story.......not only the FMS/CFS - but my travel problem began after I worked in toxic mold in 2005 www.fms-help.com/mold.htm. It has taken us awhile to get used to the "new normal" - and I know it is very disappointing to my husband that we can't go places together, except around town, like to Walmart. Our life is very happy otherwise with church and family, but accepting my limitations has been hard. I know we are not alone. I have a friend who is a retired teacher, whose husband bought a motor home for travel, but unfortunately, she fell and broke her ankle, and was never right since, so they can't travel as planned. Very disappointing. Another dear friend and her husband are broke, plus she suffers chronic, debilitating pain from botched back surgery, heart surgery, etc. - they have to stay local. So, even without FMS/CFIDS, things happen sometimes in our lives, and we have to accept what God has allowed. I know it is difficult. Self-sacrificial love is what Jesus showed to us. I have lots of encouragement on my site. It is hard to have this illness and also hard to be the spouse. BTW, many men have FMS/CFIDS, so their wives go through the same thing. I have a page about men with fibro at www.fms-help.com/men.htm. I also have a page by a husband whose wife has fibro www.fms-help.com/spouse.htm. My husband, Donnie, said he wanted to write an article for the newsletter with his thoughts about having a wife with fibro. Will print that soon.
5. EXERCISE SUGGESTIONS
Reader 1--
"Re: www.fms-help.com/040711.htm - Has she tried an urban rebounder? You can do it as fast or slow as you can tolerate & a very good work out."
Reader 2--
"I have two suggestions: 1) Dance, I am trying to do this once a day, starting for 5 min and working my way up. Just turn on your favourite dance songs and go for it! Slowly, faster or standing still and just moving as much of your body as you can. Yes, you will be sore and hurt but suck it up and keep at it... we have to keep moving and I think this is a great way as you can control how long, how hard etc. that you work at it, plus the music really lightens your mood. It's almost like meditation, when I turn music on I don't think of anything except that... my mind just seems to disconnect, it's really good for you. I have a bad knee and it hurts really bad if I move the wrong way, but it's going to hurt anyway... so why not enjoy yourself! 2) Try an elliptical, I don't have one yet but when I tried it in the store it was awesome, every part of you just flows with it if you take the time to go to a good sports store and have them "fit" you for it.... If you can't afford one look in the want ads, people are always selling exercise equipment, lol..."
6. TRUTHS & MYTHS OF USING GUAIFENESIN FOR FIBROMYALGIA
From a reader--
http://web.mit.edu/london/www/guai.html
FROM DOM: Fascinating reading! You can find more about the guaifenesin protocol in my past newsletters by using the Google box at the end of this page.
7. FOOT CRAMPS
From a reader--
"For cramping feet, i have gotten some assistance from magnesium sulfate cream from kirkman labs (google this) and from arnicare cream (available at most health food stores). Additional benefit from cataplex G and min plex from standard process whole food supplements."
8. IS CFS LINKED TO VACCINATIONS?
From a reader--
http://www.vaccinationcouncil.org/2009/06/04/is-cfs-linked-to-vaccinations/
9. TOP 5 REGRETS
From a reader--
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10. COCONUT OIL - GOOD OR BAD?
From a reader--
http://just-me-in-t-health.blogspot.com/2011/04/good-bad-ugly-and-lies.html
11. MAGNESIUM, MUSCLE CRAMPS & ANXIETY
From a reader--
The simplest answer is that our modern food supply (including organic food) simply doesn't contain the magnesium it should due to highly depleted soil conditions. Even back in 1915, there were worries about the nutrient quality of the soil, as found in a record of Congressional Testimony. So even if you eat healthy, having a deficiency of this critical mineral is likely. The impact of deficiency is significant and wide-ranging since magnesium plays a role in over 325 functions in the body. For example, if you are suffering from any of the following symptoms you may need supplemental magnesium:
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This is a very valid question. And it has a very logical answer... Approximately 50% of total body magnesium is found in bone. The other half is found predominantly inside cells of body tissues and organs. Only 1% of the body's magnesium supply is found in blood, and the body works very hard to keep blood levels of magnesium constant. If magnesium becomes depleted in the body, blood levels take top priority and are maintained at the expense of the bones and cells.
Given this, it's easy to see why blood tests would be highly inaccurate since they misrepresent the real status of magnesium levels in the body. Doctors who rely on blood tests to check magnesium — instead of magnesium deficiency signs and symptoms (and the realization that up to 80 percent of the population is deficient) — will miss an important, and easily treatable diagnosis.
What Role Does Magnesium Play in Energy Production?
One of the primary roles of magnesium is to activate adenosine triphosphate (ATP), the energy storage molecule, to create and store energy. Without magnesium, there is no energy. Without energy, there is no life.
What Role Does Magnesium Play in Relaxing Muscles?
Another important role of magnesium is to
work with calcium to help regulate the body's nerve and muscle tone. In many
nerve cells, magnesium serves as a chemical gate blocker – as long as there is
enough magnesium around, calcium can't rush into the nerve cell and activate the
nerve. This gate blocking by magnesium helps keep the nerve relaxed.
If your diet provides you with
too little magnesium, this gate blocking can fail and the nerve cell can become
over-activated. When nerve cells are over-activated, they can send too many
messages to the muscles and cause the muscles to
over-contract. One often over-looked cause of
tight muscles is too much calcium.
This chain of events
helps explain how magnesium deficiency can
trigger muscle tension, muscle soreness, muscle spasms, muscle cramps, and
muscle fatigue especially in the back and legs where some of the body's largest
muscles live.
FROM DOM: I believe in the importance of magnesium supplementation! See my 100 Tips for Coping with Fibromylagia and Insomnia at www.fms-help.com/tips.htm. Magnesium draws water into the colon, so some people who have chronic constipation appreciate this "side effect." For others, start with 1 or 2 magnesium tablets and work upwards. I have taken as many as 6 per day and it helped with fibro muscle "gelling" and pain. Take magnesium with food if it causes diarrhea. Magnesium helps muscles relax. Calcium helps muscles contract. I use the Joint Formula daily as well as CalMag (proper balance of calcium and magnesium) at night. Without the Joint Formula, the osteoarthritis in my right hand (from almost 50 years of piano playing) is painful. Without CalMag, I get ferocious foot cramps, so I absolutely need these supplements! Click here to learn more about these.
12. INTERACTIVE LIGHT THERAPY FOR FIBROMYALGIA
From Lorraine lorraine_rockel@hotmail.com--
"Can you put something in your next newsletter about EEG Driven Stimulation (Interactive Light Therapy) also known as Neurotherapy or EEG Biofeedback. I am going for a consultation about this therapy, as a friend referred me to this therapy, as she knows someone who resolved their fibro using this therapy. Apparently one must go 2 times per week for a minimum of about 6 months. (See http://www.myosymmetries.com/content_pages/fibromyalgia.html). I am wondering if anyone has tried this therapy, and what kind of results they got with this light therapy. Please reply directly to Lorraine lorraine_rockel@hotmail.com."
FROM DOM: Here's a snippet from the website Lorraine mentioned:"Neurotherapy, also known as EEG Biofeedback or Neurofeedback, is a form of biofeedback which allows an individual to learn voluntary control of their brainwave activity. Electrodes (sensors) are placed on the surface of the scalp and are held painlessly in place with a paste. The process is non-invasive. These sensors pick up the brainwave patterns (electrical activity of the brain) and transmit them to a computer which analyzes them. Settings in the computer program are individually tailored for the client based on what brainwave patterns are desired. In the case of ADD/ADHD the settings would be require the subject to produce more beta (fast brainwaves associated with concentration) and less theta (the low frequency brainwaves associated with daydreaming and inattention). In the case of anxiety the subject might be trying to produce more alpha (a slower frequency associated with a relaxed, focused state) and less high frequency beta which is associated with anxiety. The computer is set up to produce sounds and changing displays or animations when the desired brainwave patterns are achieved. It is actually like playing a video game using brainwaves. Through this immediate feedback the client learns to modify their brainwave patterns. Neurofeedback stabilizes the brain and increases flexibility so that it does not stay stuck in a particular frequency such as Theta (attentional problems) or High Beta (anxiety)."
13. GUT PROBLEMS LEAD TO DEPRESSION & BRAIN DISORDERS
http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2011/04/12/beware--bacteria-growing-in-your-gut-can-influence-your-behavior.aspx - Snippet: "IF YOU CAN'T BEAT DEPRESSION, THIS COULD BE WHY: Most people fail to realize that your gut is quite literally your second brain, and actually has the ability to significantly influence your: Mind, Mood and Behavior. So while modern psychiatry still falsely claims that psychological problems such as depression are caused by a chemical imbalance in your brain, researchers keep finding that depression and a variety of behavioral problems actually appear to be linked to an imbalance of bacteria in your gut!"
FROM DOM: We actually have 2 brains! This is a fascinating article on the "gut brain," where 80% of our immune system is located. I used an immune balancing powder for 8-1/2 years that worked in the "gut." I had great improvement in many areas of my health: intestinal (no more gas & bloating), complexion (no more breakouts), stamina, no more swollen glands, and better sleep (with meds). If you want instructions on how to use this powder, write dombush@bellsouth.net.
14. DATING & FIBROMYALGIA
FROM DOM: I received a letter from a young man who is dating a woman with fibromyalgia. He notices that at work she is bubbly, fun and energetic, but at home, she is withdrawn, in pain, angry and inattentive. She tells him she is "letting her hair down." Her suitor is wondering if fibromylagia is harming their relationship. The answer is twofold: yes, and no. Many women without fibromyalgia do the same thing, based on taking someone for granted, hormonal fluctuations, personality traits, or even character defects. I too have a "public face" and a "private face." As a teacher, I have to be positive, upbeat, and inspiring to my students, but at home I "crash." My husband is the only one who sees my "crashed" side (bless him!) Here are some pages on my site that offer insight into relationships and fibro: www.fms-help.com/relationships.htm, www.fms-help.com/spouse.htm and www.fms-help.com/misunderstanding.htm. There are many other links about relationships on my homepage at www.fms-help.com.
15. HELP FOR EBV & FIBRO
From a reader--
"I have been taking the oxygen drops now for a couple of weeks, and I have to say that it appears I am finally feeling a relief from my fibromyalgia symptoms and a return to my pre-Epstein Barr Virus energy levels. I am so happy!! I have also been taking an immune egg product. I am excited to feel this well as it has been over a year that I have been suffering with all the fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue symptoms you have mentioned on your website www.fms-help.com. I have tried to stay away from prescription medicines so I could get to the bottom of my symptoms instead of covering them up. I was lucky that I could stay home and do that and I could never have held down a full time job at that time. I have reached a new level of energy and hope this continues. I am going to pace myself, probably for the rest of my life as I now know I have a dormant virus that could come out again."
16. IRRITABLE BOWEL SYNDROME (IBS) & COLITIS
"For over 3 years Donna suffered with irritable bowel syndrome and colitis. The attacks she suffered were to the point where the future recommended treatment could include a colostomy (a surgical creation in the abdominal wall to eliminate waste to an external bag). Being in her early 40's, she was not ready for this kind of radical procedure, so she went through a series of alternative therapies, including a naturopathic doctor. Unfortunately, the doctors could not achieve any results as Donna's health continued to deteriorate to the point where she had zero energy. Her digestive tract was effectively shut down. In late August 2000, she discovered the i26 health drink. Inside of 2 weeks, all of the colitis symptoms were completely gone. Her energy was at an all time high and she cancelled the surgery. In early November, she returned to her doctor and asked, "Why is this working for me?" Donna's doctor, amazed with the results after examining her, is now taking i26 too."
FROM DOM: I used the immune balancing powder for 8-1/2 years. It had very beneficial effects on my health (see Topic #13 above).
17. WANTING DISABILITY
From a reader--
"I have been working at my job for 24 years and finding I just can't do it any more. I was denied disability. My job is just too much for me. When I tell my colleagues this, they look at me as though I'm crazy, because I 'look' fine; everyone gets tired; we are all getting older' etc etc. I'm sure you've heard all those lines, too."
FROM DOM: Yes! I can sure relate to this reader! Here's a page of helpful advice from readers who were successful in getting disability for fibromyalgia: www.fms-help.com/disability.htm.
18. ANXIETY, HEART PALPITATIONS & MCS
From a reader--
"I would like to tell the
reader in the last newsletter www.fms-help.com/040711.htm, who wrote about "anxiety" that I also suffer when I
try new medications. I have Multiple Chemical Sensitivities, and this
includes not being able to take most medications the doctors want to try on
me. Just yesterday I had to go to the doctor for a problem with my feet
burning. This has been going on for over a year now, and he told me it is
a nerve ending problem, and since I have Fibromyalgia, too, along with
degenerative arthritis, he wants me to start on Lyrica. Well.......I have
read all the horror stories about that medication that just the thoughts of
having to go on it kept me awake all night last night. I have problems sleeping
anyway, but have finally found something to help somewhat.......but not last
night. I am having such anxiety about this, and have prayed so hard asking God
if I should "at least" try it, that it is on my mind constantly. I am this
way any time they want to try a new medication on me. In the past I have had to
go to the hospital after taking ONE pill causing my lips, tongue etc. to swell,
and by the time I got to the hospital, my throat was closing. So,
naturally now I am leery about taking any new medications. This has happened at
least three times in the past. Certain scents can do this to
me, too. But, I would like this reader to know that I truly do understand
why she gets anxious about taking medications. I have gone through so much
with medications that I am apprehensive about most all of them, I
guess. I also would like her to know
that I, too have heart palpitations so badly that just recently I was
hospitalized with Atrial Fibrillation. And because I have told the doctors
about the palpitations so often, with them not finding anything wrong, that this
time I didn't know that what was happening to me was as serious as it was.
I was kept overnight in the hospital, had lots of tests run, and now have to see
a cardio doctor regularly. Praise God it wasn't something more
serious! So, to the reader......just
keep telling them about the palpitations. Maybe they will get tired
of you complaining about them, and decide to do extensive testing.
My daughter has them, too, and she is only in her forties. She has a
dry cough with hers. They tell her it is due to her being exposed to
certain chemicals, but they don't know what they are. So, as you can see,
I am concerned about this reader. The heart palpitations can be from other
things, too, so I don't mean to scare her. I had them for years and they
could find nothing wrong with my heart, which I was thankful for. So, yes, there are others out
here who are experiencing the things this reader does. I feel bad for this
person, and wish I could help in some way. I will be praying for this
person."
Here's wishing everyone a Happy Easter! May the love of Jesus sustain you and the hope we have because of His resurrection. Because He lives, we shall live also!
John 10:27, 28 "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me: And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand." II Corinthians
1: 4 - "[God] Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort
them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are
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